Is she really just a friend or more? - Page 4

sbwow · #46 22-02-2023, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by williamlau88

can also. you never know when you become the shoulder to cry on, and the dick to ride on. lol

A bastard move that is workable.
The reason why lots of attached/married guys doesn't want their gf/wife to have guy friends.
Being exploited when one is at their lowest. MADAFAKER. LMAO.

l0v3r · #47 22-02-2023, 06:28 PM

Oh she changed.. now bc very negative and cold tho lol

williamlau88 · #48 01-03-2023, 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by sbwow

A bastard move that is workable.
The reason why lots of attached/married guys doesn't want their gf/wife to have guy friends.
Being exploited when one is at their lowest. MADAFAKER. LMAO.

i had a friend say bro code cannot do to another guy. i say if u dont know the guy, then its just the girl lis a whore. if the girl really good girl u do what also no chance. they will stick to their guy. so its on her not on you lol unless u know the guy la then cb move

centuryjoker · #49 03-03-2023, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by williamlau88

i had a friend say bro code cannot do to another guy. i say if u dont know the guy, then its just the girl lis a whore. if the girl really good girl u do what also no chance. they will stick to their guy. so its on her not on you lol unless u know the guy la then cb move

different people different perspective. this very interesting way of thinking. selective reasoning. lol

limitbreaker · #50 03-03-2023, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by ahzheng

i shall be bold

let's be bold on the right things lol

ahzheng · #51 03-03-2023, 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by limitbreaker

let's be bold on the right things lol

ahaha ya not be bold on stupid things. bold also must have calculated risk and planning

l0v3r · #52 20-03-2023, 04:32 PM

She was being 'cold' for afew weeks already. Then later she bring up that we should not be so close as last time. (Probably mean no hold hands, physical intimacy all that)

Fine for me, I also stopped asking her out, and less replying to her text.

I'm later getting Abit annoyed by her sometimes. I felt like her texts are like provoking me Abit here and there.

Recently, come text me.. giving a not straight forward, half-f*** hint. She sent an article on "why do break up means". In the article, the girls explain that its just a break time to get a breather; they don't really mean to breakup; etc etc..

Not buying it and i decided to act stupid.
Looking for sincerity...

sbwow · #53 20-03-2023, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by l0v3r

She was being 'cold' for afew weeks already. Then later she bring up that we should not be so close as last time. (Probably mean no hold hands, physical intimacy all that)

Fine for me, I also stopped asking her out, and less replying to her text.

I'm later getting Abit annoyed by her sometimes. I felt like her texts are like provoking me Abit here and there.

Recently, come text me.. giving a not straight forward, half-f*** hint. She sent an article on "why do break up means". In the article, the girls explain that its just a break time to get a breather; they don't really mean to breakup; etc etc..

Not buying it and i decided to act stupid.
Looking for sincerity...

What I can deduce is she wants the good treatment from you previously but not at the physical intimacy. Basically, she is hinting at the fun times where you had to fork out your money for those food and entertainment.

If you are looking for fuck only, there is really no point continuing.
If you enjoy having a good buddy, why not? lol.

l0v3r · #54 21-03-2023, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by sbwow

What I can deduce is she wants the good treatment from you previously but not at the physical intimacy. Basically, she is hinting at the fun times where you had to fork out your money for those food and entertainment.

If you are looking for fuck only, there is really no point continuing.
If you enjoy having a good buddy, why not? lol.

Yeah a good buddy is fun. But anyway I leave it to her to show something. Since she asked for hang out normally as just friends.

If she wants things back to 'couple-like', she confirm need to make the move. It's time for me to ask for whatever I want.

Texts coming in, but no action from her yet.. she like pro sia..

Was there signs she still interested? Yes, that day at a gathering, she stood very close to me for awhile. I'm surprised, other colleagues are gathered there as well..

princecharm94 · #55 21-03-2023, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by sbwow

What I can deduce is she wants the good treatment from you previously but not at the physical intimacy. Basically, she is hinting at the fun times where you had to fork out your money for those food and entertainment.

If you are looking for fuck only, there is really no point continuing.
If you enjoy having a good buddy, why not? lol.

yes i agree. it is in female instinct. if a guy willing to pay etc, they will keep that person be it intentional or unintentional, so got someone they can use. the friendzone logic, with deeper meaning. friendzone is not just u are a friend cannot be boyfirend. u are kept there so they can continue to use you yet not be committed to anything.

sbwow · #56 21-03-2023, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by l0v3r

Yeah a good buddy is fun. But anyway I leave it to her to show something. Since she asked for hang out normally as just friends.

If she wants things back to 'couple-like', she confirm need to make the move. It's time for me to ask for whatever I want.

Texts coming in, but no action from her yet.. she like pro sia..

Was there signs she still interested? Yes, that day at a gathering, she stood very close to me for awhile. I'm surprised, other colleagues are gathered there as well..

Standing very close meant nothing, just giving people a false sense of hope of getting back together.
Only real actions speak, you know.

Last time, I have known a girl who have a bf already and still purposely stand so close till her boob is resting against my arm. Cheeky fake signals. HAHAHA.

The more you engage her, the more you probably have to spend without any returns.
Her defense mechanism is Up, hard to penetrate now. HAHAHA.
Best is to look for another.

sbwow · #57 21-03-2023, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by princecharm94

yes i agree. it is in female instinct. if a guy willing to pay etc, they will keep that person be it intentional or unintentional, so got someone they can use. the friendzone logic, with deeper meaning. friendzone is not just u are a friend cannot be boyfirend. u are kept there so they can continue to use you yet not be committed to anything.

If a guy is generous, who will not like him? Keep him around just to pay more. HAHAHAH.
Pay and Pay logic from somewhere

kakasika · #58 21-03-2023, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by sbwow

If a guy is generous, who will not like him? Keep him around just to pay more. HAHAHAH.
Pay and Pay logic from somewhere

haha so true. bro also true about female instinct. this one i have female friends ownself admit to me females are like this generally. they hardwired to keep guys that they can rely on.

l0v3r · #59 22-03-2023, 05:42 AM

Thanks for the tips guys...
Yes yes... I not going to continue anything unless she show something.
Noted on the pay and pay!

I'll go on dutch even if we ever go out next time. See what happens..

yaowaratboy · #60 22-03-2023, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by l0v3r

Thanks for the tips guys...
Yes yes... I not going to continue anything unless she show something.
Noted on the pay and pay!

I'll go on dutch even if we ever go out next time. See what happens..

if she continues going out with you even going dutch its good news lol