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Re: Do your friends abandon you when you have hardship?
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If you ever considered my advice and took up any of the license. Life will be much easier for you. In fact, now is the best time to take up the license. Coz most foreigners are stuck in their own countries. Think about it. Depending on your record, minor offences can take up a position in SCDF as well. But that is up top their own discretion and you die die must declare. |
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In this modern society people are very pragmatic especially so here in SGP.
I learnt from a very young age while in primary school there are no real friends in life..... only people who become your "friend" for the benefits and connections by being associated with you. It was drilled into me by my grandpa & family elders never ever to trust anybody.... only trust myself. |
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army ? nah. there are no friends in army. |
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national service -> I severed ties with them There were too many red flags. Everything, fb, email, phone, U name it. This was after the big crisis I had. I learned to read people much better after that. The above mentioned 2 grps, some of them I already outgrew them, some were disappointments, some were out to associate with me for benefits. |
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some people like to talk shit so that they feel more superior, to your face somemore
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No such thing as best friends.
Its always about how much useful you are to them being with you. Be very rich. Depend on yourself. End of the day, Every body and Every one leaves you. The only person sticking around is yourself.
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Friends? Mine are all Bros....
Everyone will approach me and call me "bro" when I had money to burn...... But all of them avoid or pretend dunno me when I am down and out..... So now my only true friend or buddy is Yusoff Ishak..... which I keep tightly in my wallet and bank accounts. |
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Mine was the exact opposite.... from young it was drilled into me to uphold the meaning of "Brotherhood"... one for all and all for one.... from my lion dance troupe, kungfu martial art koon, NS days and workplace... everyone spouted brotherhood and even prayed to Kwan Ti. Yes.... everyone was a "brother" in those times of abundance and easy money.... but when times are bad.... where are those so-called "brothers"? It become as every man for himself.... you die is you own business. "Brotherhood" and friends are non existent in this society..... the only friend you can count on nowadays is Yusoff Ishak..... |
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There's one member who address me "bro, bro". Borrowed $$ from me but got return la. After that he stab me at the back. Just for info, most bros here call him "the pilot" lol
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make sure its purpur yusoft ishake, not th red or blue
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I dun think it is really good to read ppl much better. Yes, there is some toxic colleagues, but if they hold an important job position how? There is a correlation between your career and your socialisation with ppl. Let's face the facts of life. I have seen how socialisation helps a bit in the career progression. If u have a good and stable career, then u can make enemy with anyone. But if u dun have, then i dun think i can agree with what u say. |
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It is always better to have a skill @ reading people than none. This is to guard against them, if possible strike pre-emptively. Good question: "Yes, there is some toxic colleagues, but if they hold an important job position how? " -> What happens if they don't like you to the core despite all your sucking up, how are you gonna cope with it? Also, high power individuals tend to stick with their own, it's called water seeking its own level. Same goes for the type of woman you have for a wife. Speaking of which, you must be married with least 1 child to feed? Even low level employees have feuds (albeit petty, and I don't give a shit about these stuff and people). Good statement but not entirely correct: "If u have a good and stable career, then u can make enemy with anyone." -> Unless you're in a position that able to get close to the board of directors, have insider trading info or in a high civil servant position (Hats off to you and congrats, if you are one). It is a matter of time that anyone can replace YOU. "There is a correlation between your career and your socialisation with ppl. Let's face the facts of life. I have seen how socialisation helps a bit in the career progression." -> Is maybe true, but I hope you're aware that in certain fields, there're tons of psychopathic tendencies people around. Beautiful women included. I personally witness and worked for one before, it's so fake that I can tell. It's been years so I am able to mimic some of their behavioural traits. And yes, I am a sociopath with antisocial traits. May luck be with you and not end up a sacrificial lamb A read for you: https://www.businessinsider.com/prof...18-5?r=US&IR=T Last edited by LooksLikeJesus; 29-01-2021 at 05:48 AM. |
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What can u advise for someone without any adequate knowledge and skills, and working in a company with selfish, toxic and high power individuals? I dun expect any good answers from u, just answer to the best of your knowledge, truthfully and practically. |
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As ludicrous as your opinions are, I'II respect them as ludicrous as they are. And no, you don't understand what I meant, in the slightest sense. |
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