Based on my experience in having affair or 1 night stand it thrilling as you are trying
New pussy to bang with. But after doing it for years karma hit me hard till I fell hard take me years to be back to where I am now.yes you can fuck here and there but to a point where you gonna lose your wife and kid it a teribble road no one can bear the pain.
Like what was advised to me. We can cheat our wife but we can't cheat our God
Karma only waiting for right time to strike.i hope my post did not hurt any bros feeling just sharing what I been thru lost 17 years of marriage and the worst is losing your kid
i don't have a kid. but i know the feeling of losing "everything" u hold dear to yourself. feel u bro.
yes, it is still cheating. from a guy pov, receiving a hj has no emotional attachment. it is less "addictive". imo, it is easier to get out of a hj massage parlor than to get out of a relationship with another girl. whether it is a mistress, SB, FB or even ONS, it is pretty tempting to keep having another girl when the previous one ends. it is a vicious cycle.
and ask any girl, it is more likely that they will forgive if it is a paid sex. when they know they have lost u in your heart, then confirm gg.
Thanks for agreeing brother that so long as the other partner doesn't know, it is still cheating for as long as any kind of sex is involved, like you mentioned FBs, SBs or SDs, ONS, FLs, WLs and so on and so forth. Agree with you that FLs and WLs are easier to detach as they are one time paid transactions, the lesser of the two evils for guys than maybe FBs for both sexes especially FBs involves quite an emotional and love attachment with each other over an extended period of time. Sad to know that they still carry on their illicit relationships nonetheless not caring if it is fair to their partner or not. Of course, for those who have lost each other's heart as you say is best to divorce.
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bros and sister on this thread. stumbled upon here and am also in sort of a blurry situation at the moment.
left my ex company years ago and since then, have always kept in touch with one female colleague via text or casual meetup occasionally. so we’ve been chatting on almost a daily basis, but sometimes if we’re really caught up, then we both will try and catch up via text message.
as mentioned this has gone on for years and both of us are married with kids. it’s like we are each our confidantes where we share our closest thing - sexual / non sexual, our grievances with our possible when available and everything else under the sun. for a fact though, we do know each other’s spouses but not that close though.
to be honest, on my side i do have a liking for her but of course the chances of any ‘affair’ happening is low we both of us have kids and our own commitments. now a kind sister here has advised me that no lady would be chatting so long and share secrets with a guy if it’s just a ‘normal’ friend but till date i haven’t got the courage to broach this topic with ex colleague.
for the experienced bro and sis here, what would your take be on this situation and what kind of a relationship would you categorised this in your honest opinion? affair? or just casual r/s between 2 long terms friends? or anything else u feel is happening in this situation since were all affected by this CB.
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bros and sister on this thread. stumbled upon here and am also in sort of a blurry situation at the moment.
left my ex company years ago and since then, have always kept in touch with one female colleague via text or casual meetup occasionally. so we’ve been chatting on almost a daily basis, but sometimes if we’re really caught up, then we both will try and catch up via text message.
as mentioned this has gone on for years and both of us are married with kids. it’s like we are each our confidantes where we share our closest thing - sexual / non sexual, our grievances with our possible when available and everything else under the sun. for a fact though, we do know each other’s spouses but not that close though.
to be honest, on my side i do have a liking for her but of course the chances of any ‘affair’ happening is low we both of us have kids and our own commitments. now a kind sister here has advised me that no lady would be chatting so long and share secrets with a guy if it’s just a ‘normal’ friend but till date i haven’t got the courage to broach this topic with ex colleague.
for the experienced bro and sis here, what would your take be on this situation and what kind of a relationship would you categorised this in your honest opinion? affair? or just casual r/s between 2 long terms friends? or anything else u feel is happening in this situation since were all affected by this CB.
i feel u bro.
am in such a situation myself.. but i keep telling myself e friendship is far more impt den e forbidden fruit..
n oso e trust tht was built over time.. once broken.. will nv go back to e same again..
juz my 1 cent worth.
bros and sister on this thread. stumbled upon here and am also in sort of a blurry situation at the moment.
for the experienced bro and sis here, what would your take be on this situation and what kind of a relationship would you categorised this in your honest opinion? affair? or just casual r/s between 2 long terms friends? or anything else u feel is happening in this situation since were all affected by this CB.
Exactly the same situation too. Abit blur now. Sigh. Got to know a lady 2 yrs ago. She is married with kids. I am too. We chatted everyday and all topics. We got along very well. Became confidantes. Became best friends. We knew we liked each as friends and told each other there can be nothing more. Then one day, we made a mistake. We kissed. After that, we lost control and became lovers. Suddenly all the dynamics changed. There were many expectations from her. We quarrelled often. She became very unreasonable. As I type this now, we are having a cold war. She blocked me. I don't want to contact her either. I regretted getting intimate with her. I lost my best friend.
I will tell you the obvious. Once you start down that road, there is no turning back. You will lose her as a best friend. Here is the not so obvious. Lust and desire are impossible to beat. Every man will think he can manage it. The fact you are curious whether she likes you reveals it ady. After knowing she likes you - isnt it obvious Sherlock - what do you do? The wheel starts churning by itself. Good luck bro. Dont end up like me. But if you do, I can use some company.
Based on my experience in having affair or 1 night stand it thrilling as you are trying
New pussy to bang with. But after doing it for years karma hit me hard till I fell hard take me years to be back to where I am now.yes you can fuck here and there but to a point where you gonna lose your wife and kid it a teribble road no one can bear the pain.
Like what was advised to me. We can cheat our wife but we can't cheat our God
Karma only waiting for right time to strike.i hope my post did not hurt any bros feeling just sharing what I been thru lost 17 years of marriage and the worst is losing your kid
I feel you ... I do have fair share of thrill and doesn’t really think about karma till it strikes on me ... hard fall and it’s a very expensive lesson...
Exactly the same situation too. Abit blur now. Sigh. Got to know a lady 2 yrs ago. She is married with kids. I am too. We chatted everyday and all topics. We got along very well. Became confidantes. Became best friends. We knew we liked each as friends and told each other there can be nothing more. Then one day, we made a mistake. We kissed. After that, we lost control and became lovers. Suddenly all the dynamics changed. There were many expectations from her. We quarrelled often. She became very unreasonable. As I type this now, we are having a cold war. She blocked me. I don't want to contact her either. I regretted getting intimate with her. I lost my best friend.
I will tell you the obvious. Once you start down that road, there is no turning back. You will lose her as a best friend. Here is the not so obvious. Lust and desire are impossible to beat. Every man will think he can manage it. The fact you are curious whether she likes you reveals it ady. After knowing she likes you - isnt it obvious Sherlock - what do you do? The wheel starts churning by itself. Good luck bro. Dont end up like me. But if you do, I can use some company.
i feel u bro.
am in such a situation myself.. but i keep telling myself e friendship is far more impt den e forbidden fruit..
n oso e trust tht was built over time.. once broken.. will nv go back to e same again..
juz my 1 cent worth.
no 1 cent worth bro. any sharing is fine. true it’s friendship that i value as like you say, it’s built over years.
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Exactly the same situation too. Abit blur now. Sigh. Got to know a lady 2 yrs ago. She is married with kids. I am too. We chatted everyday and all topics. We got along very well. Became confidantes. Became best friends. We knew we liked each as friends and told each other there can be nothing more. Then one day, we made a mistake. We kissed. After that, we lost control and became lovers. Suddenly all the dynamics changed. There were many expectations from her. We quarrelled often. She became very unreasonable. As I type this now, we are having a cold war. She blocked me. I don't want to contact her either. I regretted getting intimate with her. I lost my best friend.
I will tell you the obvious. Once you start down that road, there is no turning back. You will lose her as a best friend. Here is the not so obvious. Lust and desire are impossible to beat. Every man will think he can manage it. The fact you are curious whether she likes you reveals it ady. After knowing she likes you - isnt it obvious Sherlock - what do you do? The wheel starts churning by itself. Good luck bro. Dont end up like me. But if you do, I can use some company.
thanks for your feedback.. i guess what i’m trying to get is closure? as in does she feel the same about how i feel for her? to a certain extent i think i may not be the only one she chats to but i can’t be sure, pardon me for my biased feeling that i think somehow ladies get away with having to chat with multiple people but for guys maybe not as lucky?
so in that sense personally for me it’s like i’d close an eye to those and just treasure what i have with her.
the question to my bro’s is then, was it worth finding out that you really liked each other? for VoicesWithin the question would be, was it worth the trade off of finding it out? like you say, once i know she has likings for me, can we control each other like your experience or we may start something that we can’t control..
.. Once you start down that road, there is no turning back. .
Some roads are like that, once you've gone down one way for too long and too far, it's impossible to turn back and take another branch. Maybe, can have hope only in the next life
Sometimes when presented with options, you got to examine and be truthful to suss out what are the logical outcomes for each option. And if you're not going to go all the way, might as well don't start anything at all. Painful, but saves your effort.
Exactly the same situation too. Abit blur now. Sigh. Got to know a lady 2 yrs ago. She is married with kids. I am too. We chatted everyday and all topics. We got along very well. Became confidantes. Became best friends. We knew we liked each as friends and told each other there can be nothing more. Then one day, we made a mistake. We kissed. After that, we lost control and became lovers. Suddenly all the dynamics changed. There were many expectations from her. We quarrelled often. She became very unreasonable. As I type this now, we are having a cold war. She blocked me. I don't want to contact her either. I regretted getting intimate with her. I lost my best friend.
I will tell you the obvious. Once you start down that road, there is no turning back. You will lose her as a best friend. Here is the not so obvious. Lust and desire are impossible to beat. Every man will think he can manage it. The fact you are curious whether she likes you reveals it ady. After knowing she likes you - isnt it obvious Sherlock - what do you do? The wheel starts churning by itself. Good luck bro. Dont end up like me. But if you do, I can use some company.
Would she believe that all this was just a fantasy and in comes reality?
Personally you shouldn't regret. It is not suitable. Is it right to give up the marriage since sin already committed ? Be it whether spouse expose or kept in the dark. Even oneself heading for divorced, one should never expect your affair will come back. Getting into the affair / relationship was it about one life liberation? Would we be conscience free ?
Some roads are like that, once you've gone down one way for too long and too far, it's impossible to turn back and take another branch. Maybe, can have hope only in the next life
Sometimes when presented with options, you got to examine and be truthful to suss out what are the logical outcomes for each option. And if you're not going to go all the way, might as well don't start anything at all. Painful, but saves your effort.
sounds like this is spoken from experience.. care to share?
Yes, cheated on wife and every girlfriend since. I finally accept myself as I am and admit I am not ever going to restrict myself to fucking one woman. I finally found someone who understands that and loves me 100% anyway. So now I fuck freely and come home to a giving woman who will do anything to please me. Its the first time I feel totally myself in a relationship and have 100% honesty with my GF. And her acceptance of me makes me love her more than anything and I will never leave her.
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