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Old 21-08-2020, 04:19 AM
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What happened to me?

Hi guys,

I have no idea what happened to my body.

I have been with my girlfriend for close to 2 years and we always have regular sex. But nowadays, I am having difficulty getting my dick to stand.

It happened twice, after a long day of work, I went to visit her. We tried to do it, I was hard before. While I lick her until she cum, I turned flaccid.

After which, it couldn't stand anymore. Whats wrong with me? Is this ED?

Or what is going on ?
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Old 21-08-2020, 04:29 AM
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Hi guys,

I have no idea what happened to my body.

I have been with my girlfriend for close to 2 years and we always have regular sex. But nowadays, I am having difficulty getting my dick to stand.

It happened twice, after a long day of work, I went to visit her. We tried to do it, I was hard before. While I lick her until she cum, I turned flaccid.

After which, it couldn't stand anymore. Whats wrong with me? Is this ED?

Or what is going on ?
You are tired after a long day at work la! Go sleep la!
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Old 21-08-2020, 08:44 AM
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Re: What happened to me?

You are just tire. Get some rest. Go workout or even get some sun. That will help. Don't be too stress about it. It will make matter worse.
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Re: What happened to me?

Just tired.. and maybe u try doing it first then lick her if you are hard at the start
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Re: What happened to me?

Common problem la bro, you said so yourself already...had a hard day at work..all that adrenaline and cortisol still pumping when u bonk her, how to get hard?
Go rest and sleep...exercise regularly and even if it is ED it is reversible.
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Thanks for the input guys. But last time I was able to do it despite a long day at work. What's different now?

I really should start exercising soon.

We are both late 20s so I'm scared and feeling bad towards her..
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Thanks for the input guys. But last time I was able to do it despite a long day at work. What's different now?

I really should start exercising soon.

We are both late 20s so I'm scared and feeling bad towards her..
Age la bro, and i guess also a of psychological ed which is temporary...i 45 years old can turn it around why not a young 20s like you?
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Re: What happened to me?

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Hi guys,

I have no idea what happened to my body.

I have been with my girlfriend for close to 2 years and we always have regular sex. But nowadays, I am having difficulty getting my dick to stand.

It happened twice, after a long day of work, I went to visit her. We tried to do it, I was hard before. While I lick her until she cum, I turned flaccid.

After which, it couldn't stand anymore. Whats wrong with me? Is this ED?

Or what is going on ?
u tired, stressed and no mood la. dun worry, have good rest, tmr come back stronger and better!
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Re: What happened to me?

Should get your health checked too. Hypertension and diabetes are penis killers
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Re: What happened to me?

maybe you bored of your gf already.
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maybe you bored of your gf already.
(1) Yes, it could be because it was after a long day at work
(2) You are starting to lose feeling towards her, that's why cannot get hard.
You need to reignite that spark for her. If you let it slip on for too long, want to re-ignite the spark also cannot, the flame die too long already.

To prove if you are suffering from (1). Try booking a nice staycation or something and have sex, maybe book one of those villas (Amara, Capella or something) in Sentosa.
If still experiencing problems getting hard in a relaxed environment then maybe you are beginning to experience number (2).
That's when you need to be worried.
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Re: What happened to me?

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Hi guys,

I have no idea what happened to my body.

I have been with my girlfriend for close to 2 years and we always have regular sex. But nowadays, I am having difficulty getting my dick to stand.

It happened twice, after a long day of work, I went to visit her. We tried to do it, I was hard before. While I lick her until she cum, I turned flaccid.

After which, it couldn't stand anymore. Whats wrong with me? Is this ED?

Or what is going on ?
Did you masturbate before you visit your gf?

When was the last time you masturbate?
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Re: What happened to me?

can be several factors:

1. stress. yes its real, not some cooked up excuse to avoid sex. Try to do it on off days. I tend to experience less stress on off days. Noticed your "long day of work".

2. are you addicted to porn? do you conduct frequent masterbation like daily or even more than once daily? To overcome this, simply reduce the frequency of masterbation / of watching porn.

3. physical fitness. blood circulation issues. health problems. See a doctor on this. Got drugs / supplements to help this to a certain extent.

4. a very common problem - medication. Are you under any regular medication? usually medication side effects simply block out mood for sex, dont even say wanna have sex and cock turned soft. Wont even reach that stage. is totally not thinking of sex one. Just avoid the medication if possible.

5. Were your intoxicated? too much intoxication can make you lose the pleasure of sex. Numbness to sense of touch under intoxication. Simply avoid becoming too intoxicated before sex.
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Re: What happened to me?

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maybe you bored of your gf already.
This is what i fear the most. Like i really do love her and stuff but she A cup so...

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(1) Yes, it could be because it was after a long day at work
(2) You are starting to lose feeling towards her, that's why cannot get hard.
You need to reignite that spark for her. If you let it slip on for too long, want to re-ignite the spark also cannot, the flame die too long already.

To prove if you are suffering from (1). Try booking a nice staycation or something and have sex, maybe book one of those villas (Amara, Capella or something) in Sentosa.
If still experiencing problems getting hard in a relaxed environment then maybe you are beginning to experience number (2).
That's when you need to be worried.
Yea, I am scared of this too. Will definitely need to do go on a date sometime soon. There have been a lot of changes at work and we never went on a date for sometime already.

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Did you masturbate before you visit your gf?

When was the last time you masturbate?
Never leh. I think 2-3 days before meeting her.

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can be several factors:

1. stress. yes its real, not some cooked up excuse to avoid sex. Try to do it on off days. I tend to experience less stress on off days. Noticed your "long day of work".

2. are you addicted to porn? do you conduct frequent masterbation like daily or even more than once daily? To overcome this, simply reduce the frequency of masterbation / of watching porn.

3. physical fitness. blood circulation issues. health problems. See a doctor on this. Got drugs / supplements to help this to a certain extent.

4. a very common problem - medication. Are you under any regular medication? usually medication side effects simply block out mood for sex, dont even say wanna have sex and cock turned soft. Wont even reach that stage. is totally not thinking of sex one. Just avoid the medication if possible.

5. Were your intoxicated? too much intoxication can make you lose the pleasure of sex. Numbness to sense of touch under intoxication. Simply avoid becoming too intoxicated before sex.
1. I think so too. Happened a few days when I visit her after work and it failed to stand.. But next day after wake up all good.

2. I think no addiction, all okay.

3. I should start to exercise first bah. I am not exactly sure what's the issue also. A bit scared.

4 & 5. Working leh, maybe I was hungry? Will that block out the mood for sex?
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Re: What happened to me?

Thank you all for the input. I will probably start to resume my exercise first.

Adding more context:

When we are in foreplay, my penis is still standing. But when I am done with licking her or when I can put it in, it suddenly went soft.
Am I afraid of something that I am unaware of?
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