My cheating gf

[neoprint123]

On top of my reply has a scary dark rose... thorns too...

Originally Posted by neoprint123

Bro,

we are in no position to tell you as we are not you. There are other contributing factors which we could not see.

You choose the path. But there is one thing for sure; all of us do not know the future. Also, all things have two points of view. It could turn out good or bad but all brothers and sister here will be here to console you... (at least for me).

Venting your frustration here is good too. I do not want you to get depression or mental issue because of these stress.

Beer & Nachos for consolation TS anyone???

[3someIsAwesome]

Originally Posted by neoprint123

On top of my reply has a scary dark rose... thorns too...

Maybe Indian dude bro.

[neoprint123]

Originally Posted by 3someIsAwesome

Maybe Indian dude bro.

https://samsforum.com/showt...09938&page=126

I reckon so bro....

[3someIsAwesome]

Originally Posted by neoprint123

https://samsforum.com/showt...09938&page=126

I reckon so bro....

I've been blind all this while...

[3someIsAwesome]

Actually hor...

Miss Rose is hot! Anyway would you like to date our small bro mwong and teach him a lesson or two about love? You can teach him or show him what a real lady is supposed to be...

[Sexfory0u]

Great share TS, thanks!!

[doombringer]

Originally Posted by Ryan12345

I agree with the bro above. Why not forward the message to your gf. Let her know that this guy is using her as a trophy, fooling around, take her pics and send to others. She would know that he is a jerk.

girls are attracted by jerks, need to stop thinking there is true love in this world. girls get more attracted and want to please you hard like in this case when they know you don't care and they are just an option
绑住她也是绑住你自己自己痛苦 things in life cant be forced, you tried your best nothing else can be done, there will be no good ending, then move on. if she contacts you again, at least maybe you can have a fwb, when ppl betray you, you dont need to think for them already, just think objective in terms of value

[FatSpider]

to ts:

such a girl is not deserving of you, dont keep carrying the weight and making yourself miserable, one day she will cheat on RP and repeat the process again, just another slut

after this narration is done, let it go
life is better off without ppl who dont love u, most impt dont stop loving yourself

[3someIsAwesome]

Finally some bros with useful advices

[Tai_zi21]

Old saying but very true

Time can heals all wounds

[prefshaven]

Originally Posted by mwong

Replying to questions as mentioned above by bros here

1. yes it is still ongoing.
2. can call me useless, doesn't matter. Long distance relationship hard to maintain. I am not in sg currently so theres limitations as to what i can do.
3. Am glad theres bros sharing their similar experiences. I feel u guys brothers.
4. yes its the effort put in that makes us keep going.
5. believe it or not doesn't matter, i just wanna share because i felt like this is somewhere like the beach where i can shout loudly and let all the anger and frustrations out.
6. regarding bros talking about sharing the text and photos RP shared with me? i will cover this later part of the story. Its pretty obvious i would do that right?

Hey bro, you are still young, don't waste time on her. You don't mean much to her and your status would be a spare tire or safe habour as far as she is concern from here onwards. I know this because I had the same shit happened to me when I was younger. She come back to you if she is dumped, in trouble or even preg with another man's child.

Don't hate RP, it takes 2 to tango. Both of you are so far apart, there isn't really much you could do. Even if she is with you, is her heart, mind and soul with you too? You yourself knows she isn't stable, that's why you wanna track her. You won't be sure if the same shit will happen again even when she comes back to you later. Just like in the movie Forrest Gump, she is Jenny and you are Forrest.

[mwong]

Thanks for taking time to read my story and all the kind words by bros and sis here. Really appreciate the advises and will consider them.

Story continues...

I stayed awake through the night again while RP enjoyed himself. There was no one i could talk to. I was going crazy, literally.

6:30am
JT texted me: "morning"
Mwong: "... u alright?"
JT: "don wanna talk abt it."
Mwong: "its ok, whats past is past. I am sorry"
JT: "i am sorry too"
Mwong: "u aware that RP set us up to quarrel last night?"
JT: "I said i don wanna talk abt it, don make me bek chek early morning"
Mwong: "let me forward what RP sent me last night, u have to see these"
Before I could forward...
JT: "i thought u said whats past is past? but u r still digging it!"
Mwong: "I just want u to be careful of him because i care and love u. u cannot just let any guy take photos like that! tell me u didn't take anymore of such photos!"
JT: "so now u r trying to say that i am a lady who slps around with any guy and let them take my photos is it?! is that how u see me?! i am truly disappointed!"
Mwong: "hey i am the one who is truly disappointed here while u r staying over at RP's place, in his bed!"
JT: "u r seriously making our relationship fragile! bye"
Mwong *forward photos*
JT: *received and read*
JT: "now u r even tracking him and intruding his privacy by looking and stealing his photos!"
Mwong: "no i am not! he sent them to me, let me explain"
JT: "i don wanna hear ur lame excuses or explanation"
Mwong: "i don understand why r u like this when u r in the wrong now and u r the one being angry. i should be the one getting all pissed alright! u know u r making me miserable and cannot slp? i stayed awake because i was worried!"
JT: "thanks for letting me know that i am making u stay awake at night. u r making feel really bad now. u r worried? if u r worried u wouldn't be saying all these and making me feel worse! bye"
Mwong: "hey don like that can, why r u always like this. we should talk when things r not in good shape"
JT: "i told u i don wanna talk!"
Mwong: "let me call u"
JT: "no, stop making me bek chek! well u should be worried now! bye!"
Mwong: "..."

30 minutes later...

RP send something over...
https://mega.nz/#!ushEQQRa!nICIRPdC2...TWpKT9Ea FUZY

I hesitated, but still open up his message and press the link...

[neoprint123]

Let me think in a very conservative manner;

I downloaded the clip. just voices. didn't really have the clip showing that your gf is inside. It could be some other video which RP had taken from another girl?

I hope you are dealing well bro...

Originally Posted by mwong

Thanks for taking time to read my story and all the kind words by bros and sis here. Really appreciate the advises and will consider them.

Story continues...

I stayed awake through the night again while RP enjoyed himself. There was no one i could talk to. I was going crazy, literally.

6:30am
JT texted me: "morning"
Mwong: "... u alright?"
JT: "don wanna talk abt it."
Mwong: "its ok, whats past is past. I am sorry"
JT: "i am sorry too"
Mwong: "u aware that RP set us up to quarrel last night?"
JT: "I said i don wanna talk abt it, don make me bek chek early morning"
Mwong: "let me forward what RP sent me last night, u have to see these"
Before I could forward...
JT: "i thought u said whats past is past? but u r still digging it!"
Mwong: "I just want u to be careful of him because i care and love u. u cannot just let any guy take photos like that! tell me u didn't take anymore of such photos!"
JT: "so now u r trying to say that i am a lady who slps around with any guy and let them take my photos is it?! is that how u see me?! i am truly disappointed!"
Mwong: "hey i am the one who is truly disappointed here while u r staying over at RP's place, in his bed!"
JT: "u r seriously making our relationship fragile! bye"
Mwong *forward photos*
JT: *received and read*
JT: "now u r even tracking him and intruding his privacy by looking and stealing his photos!"
Mwong: "no i am not! he sent them to me, let me explain"
JT: "i don wanna hear ur lame excuses or explanation"
Mwong: "i don understand why r u like this when u r in the wrong now and u r the one being angry. i should be the one getting all pissed alright! u know u r making me miserable and cannot slp? i stayed awake because i was worried!"
JT: "thanks for letting me know that i am making u stay awake at night. u r making feel really bad now. u r worried? if u r worried u wouldn't be saying all these and making me feel worse! bye"
Mwong: "hey don like that can, why r u always like this. we should talk when things r not in good shape"
JT: "i told u i don wanna talk!"
Mwong: "let me call u"
JT: "no, stop making me bek chek! well u should be worried now! bye!"
Mwong: "..."

30 minutes later...

RP send something over...
https://mega.nz/#!ushEQQRa!nICIRPdC2...TWpKT9Ea FUZY

I hesitated, but still open up his message and press the link...

[doombringer]

Whats in the link? Dont dare download

[elune]

Bro...
Your story made me angry and sad at the same time cause i have been through something similar but not as bad.

I think its better to let her go, it seems like she is always pushing the blame onto you, are you sure you want to be witg someone like that?