Does conversation or breaking the ice important during massage?

[Kongyong]

I enjoy the chit chat session. Very relaxing.

[piichai]

It depends on individual.

Some people go massage and like to talk cock with the ML.
A lot of things cannot share with wife, colleagues or friends so tell ML as a form of release stress.

some go massage to enjoy the no nonsense massage.
ML should just shut down and focus on the massaging. Some ML stopped while chatting. This is not a BKK 2 hour massage , cheap cheap. This is a whopping 50 per hour. Where got time to talk?

If you ask the ML want to talk or not? They prefer to talk. Can makan time and also time pass faster. Some even leaving very little time for special.

Personally, I prefer to keep quiet and enjoy her massage after a few mins of small talk. Special time I will ask her to talk dirty.

Break what ice? This is a commercial activities, not a match making event.

[Gaze]

Originally Posted by rocket1128

you need to unlock the conversation then can unlock her bra.

Conversation is the key to unlock whatever things.

[superstiffy]

Depend on topic...

some is talk about covid
some is just talk cock not serious topic
some is talk sex topic (not dirty type just curious type)
some is talk about daily life (usually regular then will talk this)

The kind will make me dulan one is...

talk about upgrade menu like cupping, gua sha, add 30 min, change to $88..
talk about other ML or boss or spa CMI
talk about ownself say ownself good

But dun care talk what.. most impt is ML must know when to talk and when to keep quite... if talk all the way then really like mosquito fly ard ur ear like that...

[candeo_88]

I'll only chat a lot with my regular MLs... Already built up relationship and mutual feelings... Chat chat before and chat chat after...like any friend will do...Sometimes the chat chat is longer than the deed itself

My MO is mostly to enjoy the massage first...If happy with the service, kena asked GQ..then 5 minute before the deed chat chat a bit to break the ice...

If not happy with service, wont entertain at all and knowing jolly well wont come back again, so wont waste gas chat chat...

And that's all I have to say about that...

[sexmeister69]

Originally Posted by superstiffy

talk about ownself say ownself good

ooh i experienced this with 1 particularly ML near taiseng, omg the min i stepped in till i left, she only talked about her ownself damm skilful and how good she is while criticizing and badmouth her peers. the session was very painful to tahan to the point i almost wanted to tell her nicely if we can have a quiet session instead.

[mattydil]

Originally Posted by Thedeathknight

It doesn't help when almost all the MLs don't speak English, for all the non-chinese speaking bros.

Sigh, still searching.

That’s true bro.
That’s why I always be on look out for Malay or Malaysian Chinese ML.
Can talk and understand.
If not like chicken and duck.
After a few tries at talking and both misunderstand each other, i will give up and sleep.
Now, I always go to my fav ML that can talk about anything in the room.

[AlexelA]

Case by Case basis.

1. went to BQ, started chatting and ML started going into topics of how little she earns and it got very very irritating.

2. usually ML assume i don't know mandarin because i don't look chinese. halfway thru rubbish massage ML started grumbling to neighbour ML and got to know ML is a real racist.

3. one of the ML i go to who i have good rapport with will update me on her latest investments in shares. somehow it makes the massage interesting.

Overall, like in everything,balance is needed. from my experience most MLs once they get comfortable, service levels will drop damn fast. they start using handphone more and don't even apologise and you can feel more massage with one hand. worst is one ML i book for 90 mins decided to finish after 60 mins and tell me, don't mind i tired but still charge me for 90 mins.

So, i don't know how to explain but senior bros will know. If you get too close ML might take advantage of you and at times when you see a new girl in same shop she will take offence if you say you want to be massaged by new girl. Sometimes its always good to keep ML at arms length.

[Greenfrog]

most of the time, i keep my mouth shut.

because once the ML got too comfortable with you.. they might in a way shortchange you.

but you are not there to make friends in the first place ?? right ?

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by AlexelA

from my experience most MLs once they get comfortable, service levels will drop damn fast. they start using handphone more and don't even apologise and you can feel more massage with one hand. worst is one ML i book for 90 mins decided to finish after 60 mins and tell me, don't mind i tired but still charge me for 90 mins.

So, i don't know how to explain but senior bros will know. If you get too close ML might take advantage of you and at times when you see a new girl in same shop she will take offence if you say you want to be massaged by new girl. Sometimes its always good to keep ML at arms length.

Originally Posted by Greenfrog

because once the ML got too comfortable with you.. they might in a way shortchange you.

That is why PRCs think Singaporeans are good to bully. We tend to suffer in silence. If the same situation happens in China, the MLs will get complained big time by the client to the spa. Should tell her in a firm manner that doesn't burn future bridges that this is not correct.

[Halfaheart]

actually any bros got advise? my chinese not good so actually quite hesitant to go PRC ML.. never really go ML before. what you all actually talk about? i scared if sound like kantang then will kena chop!

[candeo_88]

No need a whole lot of vocab. Just the following few words will do:
You: 按摩? (massage?)
ML: 有(Yes)
You: 多少？(How much?)
ML: $XX / hr
You: 好 (OK)
ML: 跟我来 (Follow me)
You: 好 (OK)
ML: 脱衣服 (Remove your clothes)
You: 好 (OK)
ML: 力可以吗？(Strength OK?)
You: 好 (OK)
ML: 完了 (Finished)
You: 好 (OK), 谢谢 (Thank you)
ML: 下次再来 (Come again next time)
You: 好 (OK), 拜拜 (Bye bye)

See.. Not difficult right? 😂 🤣

And that's all I have to say about that

[washing]

I went message when there's new syt from China or Vietnam. I sometimes will ask them do they have rest day during 1st or 2nd month, they normally said no rest day.
I am curious is this breaking the MOM law? Is this allowed?

[washing]

I went massage when there's new syt from China or Vietnam. I sometimes will ask them do they have rest day during 1st or 2nd month, they normally said no rest day.
I am curious is this breaking the MOM law? Is this allowed?

[alphalaw]

Originally Posted by candeo_88

No need a whole lot of vocab. Just the following few words will do:
You: 按摩? (massage?)
ML: 有(Yes)
You: 多少？(How much?)
ML: $XX / hr
You: 好 (OK)
ML: 跟我来 (Follow me)
You: 好 (OK)
ML: 脱衣服 (Remove your clothes)
You: 好 (OK)
ML: 力可以吗？(Strength OK?)
You: 好 (OK)
ML: 完了 (Finished)
You: 好 (OK), 谢谢 (Thank you)
ML: 下次再来 (Come again next time)
You: 好 (OK), 拜拜 (Bye bye)

See.. Not difficult right? 😂 🤣

And that's all I have to say about that

exactly sop for me also.
but should have more lines after
ML: 力可以吗？(Strength OK?)
You: 好 (OK)