How do you met your FB/Flings?

[Stocking]

Originally Posted by wowdudesg

I'm assuming it's through the find Nearby function?

Yes, nearby search plentiful of milfs. Just keep throw lotsa fish hooks and be patient to wait for chances to do intimate conversation.

[PairPrice]

Originally Posted by ferine

sbf 10char

Where is this place?

[itguy2008]

Originally Posted by putanginamall

i ask many of my friends who has a FB. and they always say the same thing blah blah blah, but none of them admit the one similarity that they all share. they are all attractive. that is the hard truth. if one is attractive, they tend to overlook the lucky trait that they were gifted and find some other trait they believe is part of their doing, they will laud their personality, their jokes, their charisma, their body language. but ultimately, its all shite.

i ever ask before many lady friends, who would they choose for a fantasy fuck, billionaire jack ma or a white model, they will always choose to marry the money, but fuck the cherry boy.

so if possible, if there is any short, average looking, overweight guy here with a beer gut that has multiple FB (not paid sugar), please share your story, that would be the one we all wanna hear.

so if you are at the bottom feeder like me, just use money and pay. FB flings hookups are for the attractive bunch. i am not being insulting, i am just accepting the harsh reality. if you are attractive and cannot get the FB, then feel free to learn from the experts here.

Not true la. I am not attractive. During peak time, also can have 4 FB at the same time. I feel that the key thing is to provide what their husbands or boyfriends cannot provide. The time and the attention.

[putanginamall]

Originally Posted by itguy2008

Not true la. I am not attractive. During peak time, also can have 4 FB at the same time. I feel that the key thing is to provide what their husbands or boyfriends cannot provide. The time and the attention.

are you average height at least? cause i find that being short is a dead end for guys, the girls know they open leg got 100 men queuing up, why would they choose the short guy that is so unappealing?

maybe you can share your adivce

[jay1997]

hopefully this threads attracts more masters to share their tactics and skills

[lipe]

You Need Practice
 
If you want to attract more Women into your life, you are going to need practice.  How is your current strategy of meeting Women working out for you?  If you’re reading this book then you want better results.  You need to make a change. 
 
If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always got
 
That is the definition of insanity.  As I mentioned earlier do some research in your area for places that Women go to.  Personally, I sporadically meet a Girl at a store, or when there’s a festival in town, and some other places.  I also had 2 lackluster first dates at the end of last year from one of the 4 dating sites and apps I joined.  That’s awesome but it’s too infrequent for me.  I still am not a fan of drunk people, but to this day I get out to bars because where I live, they are packed full of beautiful Women.  In the flesh.   
I want to maximize the return on all the time I’m investing.  The higher volume of Women in a venue the more time efficient it is for me.  Most of my students are very busy working professionals as well so time is a key factor.  I’d rather spend an hour meeting a bunch of Women face to face at a social gathering, than spend 20 hours swiping on an app and messaging girls who rarely respond hoping to get one out on a date. All the while praying she hasn’t gained 40 pounds since her pictures from 2 years ago. 

Going out approaching and being in a social environment not only allows me to meet Women consistently, but I make friends, business contacts, have fun, keep my social skills sharp, I don’t feel like a loser sitting at home by myself Friday and Saturday nights, and even keep my social anxiety completely at bay. 

We live in a day and age where your phone and your computer want you to stay home, play it safe, and look at pictures and videos of Women instead of meeting them in the real world.  I can’t think of a more important habit to cultivate than getting out in the real world to socialize with people face to face.

Like I said you can meet girls in a bunch of different places (I will break down the most common ones later).  Go find those places in your area! Whatever you do though, don’t let your fear hold you back from going where most of the Women are.  Right now we aren’t looking for places you are most comfortable in.  It’s your comfort zone that’s been holding you back.

There are a few other bonuses to meeting Women in person.  One of which is that you can tell pretty quickly whether you get along with her or not.  You don’t have to do much guessing, online stalking, or texting to see if the two of you vibe or not.  I’ve had a bunch of Girls who I met online and slow burned for months over text messages only to meet in person and realize we don’t vibe well and won’t be seeing each other again.  What a huge waste of time and energy.  Once you are getting out regularly and lose your fear of rejection, you can easily approach Women and move on just as quickly to meet other ones if it doesn’t click.

Another cool thing is that the world is changing into a place where Men like you can reap serious rewards for your bravery.  Where there is an issue there is an opportunity.  Smart phones and technology are making people more distracted and introverted.  Your ability to bring a strong and confident social presence, face to face, lets you stand out from the crowd.  There is now a growing barrier to entry for Men with the balls to actually hit on Women in real life.  It’s much better to stand out than to blend in when trying to meet Women

[lipe]

Every Guy that is too afraid to approach Women is either waiting around, giving up, or going after them on dating apps and social media.  Girls, especially attractive ones, are getting bombarded with thousands of messages from try hard Guys.  I know many top level Women who would never go on dating apps and others who don’t use social media just because of the creepy Guys.  They don’t need dating apps, the real Men they want find them in person.

Would you rather try to get a Girl’s attention through a few words in a text message, trying to stand out in the sea of Guys who are too scared to talk to her in real life?  Or would you rather cut through the bullshit and actually be with her face to face having a real conversation?  Only 7% of communication is the words that you say.  I always say “texting” is like coming to a war with a water gun.  In person communication is like showing up with an army.

 
Your skills won’t develop themselves

Like I mentioned before it’s easy to keep to yourself nowadays.  We may have even been taught growing up to mind our own business, keep to ourselves, don’t touch anything, and not bother anyone.  Let’s look at a very average single adult male… 

-Works at a 9-5 desk job all week.  Doesn’t talk to many people there.

-Hits the gym or works out a few times a week or year.  Doesn’t talk to anyone at the gym. 

-Does a little shopping on the weekend.  Or instead He grabs takeout and can even order all food and groceries to his home.

-Spends most of his down time at home playing around on his phone, on the computer, and watching TV. 

-Sex life?  Just watches porn and jerks off.

It’s no wonder that most Men settle for very poor, or nonexistent, dating and social lives.  It’s easy for us to miss our ex-girlfriend and want her back, fantasize about that one cute girl we see all week at work or in our apartment complex, and eventually settle for anything with a vagina that shows even the slightest bit of interest in us.  It’s easy for us to not do shit!  I’ve definitely been guilty of a lot of these things for many years. 
 
The bottom line is that No one cares if you live a mediocre life.
 
It’s sad but true.  Everyone cares about #1.  When you see a very overweight and unhealthy person do you kick them in the ass and tell them to stop eating Twinkies?  I wish someone did when I was fat, but they never did.  Instead we just keep to ourselves.  The vision of a mediocre life and unfulfilled potential scared the shit out of me and forced me to run away from my comfort zone as fast as I could, because if I stayed in it, the life I truly wanted would never exist.  

[lipe]

“I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself”- the top regret of dying people
 
Us Men have to get out of the house and force ourselves to become the Men we really want to be.  Socializing is optional for us and most Men don’t do much of it.  No high quality Woman is going to appear out of thin air, or out of your cell phone, and join you back at your Man Cave to watch TV.  Besides, if you don’t develop the social skills to talk to and flirt with Women in person, when you do get a rare opportunity at some point down the line you won’t be ready.  You can’t just dust off the Cheetos, walk out of your house and suddenly be as smooth as James Bond.  You need practice. 

Women get practice.  The higher quality they are, the more practice they get.  They can’t help it.  A beautiful Woman will get flirted with, hit on, and talked to everywhere she goes, and on her social media like I mentioned before.  She has no option but to develop social skills.  Besides that, Women are naturally more social than Men.  We have some serious social ground to make up as Men, and the longer we wait the worse it gets.
 
I believe every single Man on this planet should spend some time in the trenches approaching Women.
 
You should go through a phase where you go out in the real world and meet Women. Deal with some rejection, and build solid character and courage.  Doing this helps you learn insanely valuable skills like persistence, positivity, humility, flexibility, relating, relaxing under stress, holding a stimulating conversation, flirting, showing intention, confidence, vulnerability, and the list goes on and on.  Society wants us to be timid pussies nowadays.  Be quiet, don’t hit on Women, keep to yourself, and buy lots of useless shit in hopes of impressing Women.  It’s the easy thing to do and most Men are doing it sadly.

I’ve gotten so much from my time in the trenches that after 10 years I still make time every week to get out and meet Women totally cold.  It doesn’t feel like the trenches anymore, but the rewards are still there.  I meet lots of beautiful Women and my social/flirting skills and intuition stay razor sharp.  When I do get an opportunity to meet a Woman that’s any warmer than approaching her as a complete stranger, now it’s like taking candy from a baby.

My mission here is for us Men to become better Men through getting out there and going after our dreams.  Fuck the comfort zone, fuck what society thinks, fuck waiting or hoping, and fuck fear.  That small first decision to get out to that bar and go after what I wanted in my life has carried over all the way up to today.  It makes me feel absolutely amazing to write this book and share this critical information to help you and other Men live the life you truly want. 

I would have never had the courage or confidence to help change anyone else’s life, start my own business, or share my ideas with the world if I stayed in my comfort zone.  It may start with getting out and approaching women, but it can carry over and start an amazing snowball effect that transforms your entire life.  It did mine for mine and for so many of my students and colleagues over the years.  I want the same for you. 

Okay my rant is over.  I hope you’re fired up.  Hopefully by now you can see that meeting Women in person is a damn good idea for many reasons.  The thing standing in our way now is fear of actually approaching Women.  Let’s dive deep into that fear and pull it out by the roots.

[robert1234]

Recommending this book call The Game, by Neil Strauss. Chanced upon it way back while i was still an nsf. My life changed after reading it, getting laid was never a prob.

Hope it helps other bros here.

[wowdudesg]

Originally Posted by lipe

“I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself”- the top regret of dying people
 
Us Men have to get out of the house and force ourselves to become the Men we really want to be.  Socializing is optional for us and most Men don’t do much of it.  No high quality Woman is going to appear out of thin air, or out of your cell phone, and join you back at your Man Cave to watch TV.  Besides, if you don’t develop the social skills to talk to and flirt with Women in person, when you do get a rare opportunity at some point down the line you won’t be ready.  You can’t just dust off the Cheetos, walk out of your house and suddenly be as smooth as James Bond.  You need practice. 

Women get practice.  The higher quality they are, the more practice they get.  They can’t help it.  A beautiful Woman will get flirted with, hit on, and talked to everywhere she goes, and on her social media like I mentioned before.  She has no option but to develop social skills.  Besides that, Women are naturally more social than Men.  We have some serious social ground to make up as Men, and the longer we wait the worse it gets.
 
I believe every single Man on this planet should spend some time in the trenches approaching Women.
 
You should go through a phase where you go out in the real world and meet Women. Deal with some rejection, and build solid character and courage.  Doing this helps you learn insanely valuable skills like persistence, positivity, humility, flexibility, relating, relaxing under stress, holding a stimulating conversation, flirting, showing intention, confidence, vulnerability, and the list goes on and on.  Society wants us to be timid pussies nowadays.  Be quiet, don’t hit on Women, keep to yourself, and buy lots of useless shit in hopes of impressing Women.  It’s the easy thing to do and most Men are doing it sadly.

I’ve gotten so much from my time in the trenches that after 10 years I still make time every week to get out and meet Women totally cold.  It doesn’t feel like the trenches anymore, but the rewards are still there.  I meet lots of beautiful Women and my social/flirting skills and intuition stay razor sharp.  When I do get an opportunity to meet a Woman that’s any warmer than approaching her as a complete stranger, now it’s like taking candy from a baby.

My mission here is for us Men to become better Men through getting out there and going after our dreams.  Fuck the comfort zone, fuck what society thinks, fuck waiting or hoping, and fuck fear.  That small first decision to get out to that bar and go after what I wanted in my life has carried over all the way up to today.  It makes me feel absolutely amazing to write this book and share this critical information to help you and other Men live the life you truly want. 

I would have never had the courage or confidence to help change anyone else’s life, start my own business, or share my ideas with the world if I stayed in my comfort zone.  It may start with getting out and approaching women, but it can carry over and start an amazing snowball effect that transforms your entire life.  It did mine for mine and for so many of my students and colleagues over the years.  I want the same for you. 

Okay my rant is over.  I hope you’re fired up.  Hopefully by now you can see that meeting Women in person is a damn good idea for many reasons.  The thing standing in our way now is fear of actually approaching Women.  Let’s dive deep into that fear and pull it out by the roots.

This is a pretty good read and quite informative.

As you mention I do stay at home quite often but I still exercising to keep myself slim enough to not be unattractive. Another issues gonna be University is taking a shit load of my time due to the amount of assignments and deadlines :/

[wowdudesg]

Originally Posted by Stocking

Yes, nearby search plentiful of milfs. Just keep throw lotsa fish hooks and be patient to wait for chances to do intimate conversation.

I'll try it out and see how it goes.

[willroyce]

Originally Posted by robert1234

Recommending this book call The Game, by Neil Strauss. Chanced upon it way back while i was still an nsf. My life changed after reading it, getting laid was never a prob.

Hope it helps other bros here.

i have heard about the book... do you have any idea where to get it??

[willroyce]

Originally Posted by putanginamall

are you average height at least? cause i find that being short is a dead end for guys, the girls know they open leg got 100 men queuing up, why would they choose the short guy that is so unappealing?

maybe you can share your adivce

i think the height does not matter because it all comes to how you carry yourself and all the girls like dudes with confidence. make sure your self esteem is high

[lipe]

Originally Posted by willroyce

i have heard about the book... do you have any idea where to get it??

A little help to your question.



Short Summary
Great story and addictive to read. The Game by Neil Strauss is a step-by-step guide to picking up women told in story form. The biggest aha moment for me was that pickup is actually about men, not women. You’ll learn a lot about seduction but its value lies more in the mindset.

Lessons
Pickup is a linear process: capture the imagination first and the heart next.

Interest + attraction + seduction = sex.

To get a woman, you have to be willing to risk losing her.

Neg: an ambiguous statement or seemingly accidental insult delivered to a beautiful woman you just met, with the intent of actively demonstrating to her (or her friends) a lack of interest in her. Example: “Those are nice nails; are they real?”

IOI (an indicator of interest): a sign a woman gives a man that indirectly reveals she is attracted to him. E.g. leaning towards a man when he speaks, asking mundane questions to keep a conversation going, or squeezing his hand when he takes her hand in his

Peacock: to dress in a flashy and colorful way in order to draw attention from women. Examples: bright shiny shirts, light-up jewelry, or colorful cowboy hats

Step 1: Select a Target
Group Theory: beautiful women are usually accompanied by friends. After approaching the group, you must simultaneously win the approval of her friends — especially the men — while actively demonstrating a lack of interest in her.

The 3-Second Rule: a woman should be approached within three seconds of first seeing her. If you take longer, you’ll get nervous and she will think you’re a creep

“The number one characteristic of an alpha male is the smile. Smile when you enter a room. As soon as you walk in a club, the game is on. And by smiling, you look like you’re together, you’re fun, and you’re somebody.”

Besides confidence and a smile, the other characteristics of an alpha male are being well-groomed, possessing a sense of humor, connecting with people, and being seen as the social center of a room.

Step 2: Approach and Open
Never approach a woman from behind. Always come in from the front, but at a slight angle so it’s not too direct and confrontational. Speak over your shoulder so it looks like you might walk away at any minute.

“Don’t approach a woman with a sexual come-on. Learn about her first and let her earn the right to be hit on. An amateur hits on a woman right away. A pro waits eight to ten minutes.”

The basic format to all approaches:

Smile when you walk into a room. See the group with the target and follow the three-second rule

Recite a memorized opener, if not two or three in a row

The opener should open the group, not just the target. When talking, ignore the target for the most part and focus on the men

Neg the target. “It’s so cute. Your nose wiggles when you laugh.” Get her friends to notice and laugh about it

Convey personality to the entire group by using stories, magic, anecdotes, and humor. Pay attention to the men and the less attractive women
Neg the target again if appropriate

Ask the group, “So, how does everyone know each other?” Find if the target is with one of the guys and for how long. If it’s a serious relationship, leave politely

If she is not spoken for, say to the group, “I’ve sort of been alienating your friend. Is it all right if I speak to her for a couple of minutes?” They always say, “Uh, sure. If it’s okay with her.” If you’ve executed the preceding steps correctly, she will agree

Isolate. Tell her you want to show her something cool and take her to sit with you nearby. As you lead her through the crowd, do a touch test by holding her hand. If she squeezes back, it’s on. Start looking for other lOls
Sit with her and do something that will fascinate and intrigue her
Tell her, “Beauty is common but what’s rare is great energy and outlook on life. Tell me, what do you have inside that would make me want to know you as more than a mere face in the crowd?” If she begins to list qualities, this is a positive IOI

Stop talking. Does she reinitiate the chat with a question that begins with the word “So?” If yes, you have seen three lOls and can…
Kiss close (“Would you like to kiss me?” routine). If the setting or circumstances aren’t conducive to physical intimacy, give yourself a time constraint: “I have to go, but we should continue this.” Get her number and leave

Step 3: Demonstrate Value
One of the most important things to do with an attractive woman is to demonstrate value. What makes you any different from the last twenty guys who approached her?

“A pickup artist never gives a girl his phone number, because she might not call. A PUA must make a woman comfortable enough to give him her number.”

To get a woman, you have to be willing to risk losing her.

Phase-Shift: to make the transition, during a one-on-one conversation with a woman, from ordinary calk to slower, sexually-charged talk, touch, or body language; intended to precede an attempt to kiss.

“As soon as you ask yourself whether you should or shouldn’t kiss a girl, that means you should.”

To kiss-close, ask her: “Would you like to kiss me?”. One of three things will happen:

She says “Yes” and you kiss her. This is rare
She says “Maybe” or hesitates, and you say “Let’s find out,” and kiss her
You get a “No” and reply “I didn’t say you could. It just looked like you had something on your mind.”
Routines to kiss a girl:

The Photo Routine: first take a photo of yourself and a girl smiling, then another one striking a serious pose, and, finally, one kissing (on the cheek or lips). Afterward, look through the photos with her. At the final photo, say, ”We make a good couple, don’t we?“ If she agrees, you’re in.
The Tic-Tac Routine: put two Tic Tacs in your hand. Eat one very slowly. Then feed the second one to her. If she accepts it, say, ”There’s something I forgot to tell you. I’m an Indian giver. I want my Tic Tac back.“ Then kiss her.
Step 4: Disarm the Obstacles
Power is retained by attracting loyalty, and subjugation is guaranteed by giving it.

“In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out. Usually, what you wish for doesn’t fall in your lap; it falls somewhere nearby, and you have to recognize it, stand up, and put in the time and work it takes to get to it. This isn’t because the universe is cruel. It’s because the universe is smart. It has its own cat-string theory and knows we don’t appreciate things that fall into our laps.”

Interrogation is not seduction. Seduction is the art of setting the stage for two people to choose to reveal themselves to each other. Talking in statement form is the way old friends speak to each other. Statements are the mode of the intimate, the confident, and the giving.

To make someone want something, you need to give value. You show that others like it. You make it scarce. And you make them work for it.

Never give a woman a straight answer to a question. If a woman asks what you do for a living, keep her guessing: tell her you’re a cigarette lighter repairman or a white slave trader or a professional hopscotch player.

Step 5: Isolate the Target
The key to physical escalation is always two steps forward, one step back.

Chick-crack: most women respond to routines involving tests, psychological games, fortune-telling, and cold-reading

The Best-Friends Test: ask two friends a question, such as “Do you use the same shampoo?” If they look at each other before answering, they’re best friends. Otherwise, they will keep their attention on you

The Lying Game: a woman thinks of four true statements and one lie about her house or her car. Then she says them out loud one by one. You can spot the lie by looking for a variation in her eye movements. People look in different directions when they lie than when they’re telling the truth

“There are certain bad habits we’ve groomed our whole life-from personality flaws to fashion faux pas. And it has been the role of parents and friends, outside of some minor tweaking, to reinforce the belief that we’re okay just as we are. But it’s not enough to just be yourself. You have to be your best self. And that’s a tall order if you haven’t found your best self yet.”

Laughter is often the best seduction. Everything that was funny at age ten is funny all over again.

Step 6: Create an Emotional Connection
The goal of the PUA is simply not to trigger a woman’s shutdown or flight responses. As such, every part of the pickup is designed simply to anticipate and disarm objections.

When you start talking to a group of people, their first concern is, “Are we going to be stuck with this guy all night? How do we get rid of him?” So you give yourself a false time constraint such as “I can only stay for a minute because I need to get back to my friends.”

As you interact, pay attention to the people who seem most likely to shut you out-the jealous men and overprotective friends. Make them feel good about themselves as you challenge, tease, and neg the target. If she interrupts you, for example, say, “Wow. Is she always like that? How do you deal with her?” If she looks shocked, you reel her back in with a light compliment. This is called a push-pull.

Push-Pull: a technique used to create or increase attraction, in which a man gives a woman indications that he is not interested in her followed by indications that he is. This sequence can take place in a few seconds-such as taking a woman’s hands and then dropping them as if you don’t trust her yet-or over time, such as being very nice during one phone conversation but then very distant and abrupt during the next one

After the opening interaction, demonstrate value. Then pretend like you have to get back to your friends. Now they don’t want you to leave. You are in. You’ve shown them that you’re the most interesting, fun person in the room. This is the hook point: You can now relax and enjoy their company. Now you’re part of the group.

Step 7: Extract to a Seduction Location
When it comes time to leave, tell the group you lost your friends and need a ride home. This will give the woman an opportunity to be alone with you without letting her friends know she plans to sleep with you. If the logistics are too difficult, get her number and make a plan to hang out later in the week.

When she pulls up to your house, give her another false time constraint: tell her you have to get to sleep early because you have a lot of work tomorrow. By this point, you both may know you’re going to have sex, but you still have to play a solid game so she can tell herself later that it just happened.

Continue using a combination of time constraints and push-pull to amp her attraction. Keep telling her she has to leave soon. Then use the evolution phase-shift routine: smell her, bite her arm, let her bite your neck, bite her neck, and then kiss.

You should always be the first one to object. This is called stealing her frame. The goal now is simply to arouse her without making her feel pressured, used, or uneasy.

Step 8: Pump Buying Temperature
Pickup is a linear process: capture the imagination first and the heart next. Interest plus attraction plus seduction equals sex.

If you describe anything with enthusiasm and congruence, people will want to try it – especially if you don’t give them the opportunity to say no.

“The less you appear to be trying, the better you do.”

Yes-Ladder: capturing her attention by asking questions that require an obvious affirmative answer.

Step 9: Make Physical Connection
Rocks vs Gold: women in a relationship want rocks — wonderful nights out, romantic attention, and emotional connection — while men seek gold — sex. If you give a woman only gold or a man just rocks, neither will be satisfied. There must be an exchange.

Learn how to take a compliment. The only response a confident person can make is “Thank you.”

Step 10: Blast Last-Minute Resistance
Simply finding out that you have a passion for something another person also likes and respects is enough to fire chemistry. When two people discover they have things in common, pheromones are released and attraction begins.

The great lie of modern dating is that in order to sleep with a woman, a man must pretend initially as if he doesn’t want to.

“But the truth is that the fantasy is often better than the reality. I had just learned that lesson. Most men eventually learn that lesson.”

Step 11: Manage Expectations
There is a downside to casual sex: Sometimes it stops being casual. People develop a desire for something more. And when one person’s expectations don’t match the other person’s, then whoever holds the highest expectations suffers. There is no such thing as cheap sex. It always comes with a price.

Flattery will get you everywhere.

“If there was anything I’d learned, it’s that the man never chooses the woman. All he can do is give her an opportunity to choose him.”

We were all searching outside ourselves for our missing pieces, and we were all looking in the wrong direction. The answers were to be found within. To win the game was to leave it.

[Jjcoolidge]

Okay my rant is over.  I hope you’re fired up.  Hopefully by now you can see that meeting Women in person is a damn good idea for many reasons.  The thing standing in our way now is fear of actually approaching Women.  Let’s dive deep into that fear and pull it out by the roots.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/QUOTE]

Now THIS is GOLD! Mighty generous of @Lipe for sharing this to the benefit of us all.

As a local male growing up here, being quiet and inconspicuous is sadly the accepted way, conditioning men here to lack the courage to approach the subject of their desire. I've been there and done that. Though I'm certainly not the authority on this even now, age has granted me the insight and the thickness of hide to appreciate and attest to the efficacy of the above approach.
Practice certainly brings you closer to perfection. Step out of your comfort zone. Be of open mind and heart to accept the imperfections of yourself and others. Be generous in expressing and demonstrating to the lady of your desire that she's a person who deserves your attention and affection. Be sharp to pick up the subtle nuance of her interest and be gallant in the face of rejection.
We all want to meet that special person to share that intimate part of our self with. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.