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When it is so easy to get girls...
I have never been a good-looking guy when I was young. Face full of acne, hair that looked like a mess, goody two shoes.
Never had the confidence to court girls. Even when I did, it never worked out. Fast forward a decade, now as a working adult and almost a family man, there is no lack of females by my side. I'm not any handsome or rich guy but it's surprisingly so easy to chat them up, hook them in and fuck them. I sign up for any social media app and I will have more girls than I can handle. Married, single, attached, pregnant, expats, locals, you name it I probably have tried it. Some of them I lied about being single (feels the most guilty and ends poorly), some of them I told them the truth but they would still continue to do it with me (even crazier after being honest with them...best!) But... I'm about to be a family man with a partner that loves me wholeheartedly and the thought of playing with their hearts makes me hold back on my reins. But then again, it's now or never... so I did fool around and fuck a couple ones (insert my encounters that I littered all over the forum). This dilemma of being a proper family man/gentleman vs a playboy fucking around... Has anyone going through or been this situation? What would you do? Last edited by coypredator; 22-09-2019 at 11:44 PM. |
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Re: When it is so easy to get girls...
What thrills you to the sex? Is it with different girls, the feel good or something that other girls can give but not your partner?
How do you feel after having sex with your partner vs other girls? I felt that althought my partner refuse to do some acts, at the end of the day I still feel that she is best compared to other girls that I have come across. The emotions is totally different. Men cheat because of various reasons and we tend to justify the correctness of our actions even if we are wrong, even for me. Its hard to resist temptation when trying to be a family gentleman. However, judge the severity of your actions and the things you will lose forever if get caught or even contract HIV. For me, I will see how far I can go with the girl and I tend to set higher requirement. A safety check for me to lose interest more easily. I am picky for girls looks, body and the way she talks. If either fails I will just drop them. |
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having sex with all the girls and making love with my partner is what makes the difference. good point on being picky because when I first started, the girls i hook up with are slightly below average or average girls. the problem is as i set my requirements higher... the quality of the girls i can hook with up also goes up - now I have a good pool of solid girls. (models, hot milf, attractive singles, good figured expats, GND females) it's almost crazy to reject them; but also crazy to say yes to them... |
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I would say just be very careful and draw clear boundaries with the girls. The last thing you want is them falling for you and sticking to you like glue which subsequently may be difficult to shake off. That's the point where your partner will start to notice a difference in your behaviour.
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When u kiss your partner will u think of the other person? I can’t shake this psychology barrier as it comes and go. How do u shake this off? |
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Nowadays fucking around is normal. Everybody doing it including married men |
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But there's 1 easy way to shake them off - just tell them you are fucking other girls. it worked for me. Didn't meant to tell them but thought I would be honest. guess there's a limit they can accept. Quote:
for me, i love my partner wholeheartedly. i'm excited to see her every time... so i guess you would need to rekindle the love for her. Quote:
the heart wants what it wants, the brain also wants what it wants. hard to manage this. |
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Re: When it is so easy to get girls...
Yes if you are already thinking of the repurcussions, your conscience is kicking in. Did you have a difficult time chasing your wife? You said you are not handsome but yet your wife chose you, means she sees your heart more than anything else. Stop thinking about fucking other girls and concentrate on your family. Over time the addiction will die down. Don't lose the resources you invested in your wife. Not worth it.
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At first I was just thinking to enjoy the moments until slowly getting to know this other gal that we can really connect very well. |
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