Advice on getting girls pregnant

[Andreme]

Long story short , I fucked up and now one of my regular FL says she is pregnant. I dont want to bring her home so is it advisable to just let her raise the baby in vietnam? What will the cost be as she lives in a town 2 hrs away from Ho chi minh so i dont need to pay city prices.

[ahlong12]

the title and the content is very misleading haha. I thought you were asking about how to get girls pregnant. Anyway, are you sure its your kid since she is FL?

[chariotholder]

Originally Posted by Andreme

Long story short , I fucked up and now one of my regular FL says she is pregnant. I dont want to bring her home so is it advisable to just let her raise the baby in vietnam? What will the cost be as she lives in a town 2 hrs away from Ho chi minh so i dont need to pay city prices.

Bro, that child will not know its father? U sure?

[Andreme]

The timeline matches so im pretty sure its mine. I dont mind being a father but its just not with this girl.

[expatamerican]

Originally Posted by Andreme

The timeline matches so im pretty sure its mine. I dont mind being a father but its just not with this girl.

How exactly does the timeline match? No matter when you last fucked her she may have fucked a dozen other guys in the same few days. Maybe you are just the most naive one she can sucker into paying for it. Or maybe she told 4 guys they're the father and just see which one takes the bait. Maybe she will get more than one guy to pay for the kid. Seriously, shes an FL. There is no way short of a DNA test to know that the kid is yours. If you seriously want to support, then get DNA test first before any money goes to her.

[silvooon]

Originally Posted by Andreme

Long story short , I fucked up and now one of my regular FL says she is pregnant. I dont want to bring her home so is it advisable to just let her raise the baby in vietnam? What will the cost be as she lives in a town 2 hrs away from Ho chi minh so i dont need to pay city prices.

DNA first bro. dont so easy believe. if ONS or fling can understand la but FL fuck so many guys. how can sure is yours ?

if proven is yours, raise in vietnam have guys do that. but then again, financially how much will she depend on you ?

responsibility wise, grey area in my opinion. if gf or fling, i think must be responsible 100% of both girl and baby. FL, she works with the risk and she never take contraceptive pills and take customer raw, this one she also have significant responsibility ah.... regular FL but bottom line u still customer. in your situation, if proven mine, i will let her raise in vietnam, financially only support the kid basic needs. food education like these.

[lonelyfish]

Raw with FL girls or sex worker and got her pregnant, I'll probably tell her to get rid of it or deal with it herself. They have too many partners and should take measures to prevent it. If it's FWB, depends on situation.

[Andreme]

thanks for all the advice guys , Ill support her basic needs until the baby is out and then do DNA test. If it is mine i will support the basics and the mother. Appreciate all the honest opinions

[expatamerican]

Originally Posted by Andreme

thanks for all the advice guys , Ill support her basic needs until the baby is out and then do DNA test. If it is mine i will support the basics and the mother. Appreciate all the honest opinions

You are a good man. Unfortunately these women know how to take advantage of good men. Just be careful.

[Peacekeeping]

Singapore men are too good. Even if the baby turns out not yours, you have done a good deed.

[dennisss]

Originally Posted by Andreme

thanks for all the advice guys , Ill support her basic needs until the baby is out and then do DNA test. If it is mine i will support the basics and the mother. Appreciate all the honest opinions

In case you don't know, there is prenatal DNA test. They take the mother's blood for samples.

Also I paid about 9k SGD for my wife's delivery in VN. I know it's on the high side ah, but hearsay they are Singapore standard and private ward. Hanh Phuc Hospital if you want to know. I've been to their public hospital before, quite unsanitary...

[Andreme]

Originally Posted by dennisss

In case you don't know, there is prenatal DNA test. They take the mother's blood for samples.

Also I paid about 9k SGD for my wife's delivery in VN. I know it's on the high side ah, but hearsay they are Singapore standard and private ward. Hanh Phuc Hospital if you want to know. I've been to their public hospital before, quite unsanitary...

you mind sharing more details? she is on the outskirts of HCM so need about 2 hrs to get to the city

[Banaber]

Originally Posted by dennisss

Also I paid about 9k SGD for my wife's delivery in VN. I know it's on the high side ah, but hearsay they are Singapore standard and private ward. Hanh Phuc Hospital if you want to know. I've been to their public hospital before, quite unsanitary...

😱 why not at Singapore?

[dennisss]

Originally Posted by Andreme

you mind sharing more details? she is on the outskirts of HCM so need about 2 hrs to get to the city

PM

Originally Posted by Banaber

😱 why not at Singapore?

Because no intent to stay in Sg. She got papers to go US.

[Taffy83]

Originally Posted by Andreme

Long story short , I fucked up and now one of my regular FL says she is pregnant. I dont want to bring her home so is it advisable to just let her raise the baby in vietnam? What will the cost be as she lives in a town 2 hrs away from Ho chi minh so i dont need to pay city prices.

Basic expenses will cost 20mil VND to 30mil VND a month. You can take away 5mil if rental of house is not required. Just Curious, 2h away is it Vung Tau? 😂