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This is Singapore. The Family is the building block of Civilization. We will not leave anyone behind. Whatever the obstacles in front, it can be overcome, together, by sharing perspectives & possible solutions to live life, as our founding & forefathers/foremothers had done, sacrificed, never gave up, but gave us our todays. You are not alone, not in Singapore....
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This is a very one sided exposition. My 2 cents worth : TS has made a number of poor life choices and seems unwilling to take accountability for her own actions.
1. Instead of staying away from a toxic ex, she came back for more drama. 2. Husband probably bears a grievance as he probably did not want a child. 3. Has an extra marital affair, at least feels guilty maybe? 4. So busy handling the kid herself and is a working Mum, still have time for office fling. Ok…. 5. If one’s character is above board & generally cordial, why would your closest family be easily swayed by mere words? My advice is : Self reflection is very important in life. We all need to take accountability for our own choices. |
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TS, if you see this marriage going nowhere, better end it early than later.
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As a divorcee myself, I can relate to what TS has said. My $0.02,
At the end of the day, YOU are responsible for YOUR happiness. Nobody else is. So you think long and hard, about what you want in your life. And whether you are willing and are able to bear the consequences. Go for "happiness" with your beau, and your husband will surely weaponize your son against you. Your husband's stunt will work on your son, temporarily but the bond between mother and son is primal and unbreakable so it is only a matter of time before he returns to you. I know many men who hate their fathers, but I struggle to name even one who hates his mum. The bigger question is, will you find true happiness with your beau, and if you don't - are you willing and able to contemplate living alone without your son (if you lose care and control)? If you try to get the best of both worlds by taking a share of the property, care and control of your son and money from your husband then I would say that you are automatically sabotaging your future happiness with the single guy. His family will be livid, that he chooses to shack up with a married woman, what more one with child. He may also want his own children and no matter what he says, no man ever grew up wanting to be a stepfather to some other guy's CIP (Cum in Pussy) within you. Sorry to be explicit, but I need to get this message across super explicitly. A woman's mind is a strange and complex thing, highly illogical and very emotional so it may help to bring some things into the spotlight Ah, as an afterthought - if you are female, why do you choose a username that references the Greek God of excuses and afterthoughts? A tragic choice, I say! |
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From what I see, you are trying to justify for yourself to stray. If you really think your spouse is bad, you should leave him already.
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1. son already mentioned why u dont divorce him 2. he not willing to change 3. money wise you already single handedly raising him so not a big worry here. meeting other guys can come later. |
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u already in counselling... if its not working and he dont want to change then... i think can leave le la
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guy no good, and not willing to change, can leave. but if marriage problem between the two of you? need to resolve between the two of you. why bring the new guy in the picture ?
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All the messages about hearing two sides of the story, but honestly, this is not about “passing judgement”
If what you typed is really what you feel about the situation/him, then the only way out seems to be to leave. In that very long post you typed, there was literally not one single good thing about him… All I would say is to think things through properly and just make sure that it’s not a decision in haste or anger. |
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Any lawyers here to help the poor lady. If have all either scared to reveal their jobs or cannot be bothered cos we're mostly here looking for a gd sexual deal la.
As much as i would like to give TS some encouragement I think this forum is not exactly the best place for it la. |
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