Sexless Marriage

[secretlurker88]

Just curious as I'm single. Why do you bros get married to such women? was it that they were very different before marriage? or is it even before marriage they didn't like sex already?

[farkadipa]

Originally Posted by Wasabi999

So many bros in the same ship after marriage... haiz....

After marriage not too bad. It is after giving birth, where her energy & focus are on the little kids and not the old man. Just got to tell myself that the 'sacrifice' is for the kids... Hahaa

[lightweaver]

Might be too late. U can try conditioning. Eg house rules. Jus like in bmt, all is disciplined to follow orders. U can suggest min 2x a week. It may sound regimental but once tat expectation is set, it's easier to manage. This has to b done early in rs or after a big fight to renegotiate the terms. U can try a kinkier approach I did which is to hv a master slave kind of storyline. Spices things up and masks the rigidity.

[I Love Boobs]

Originally Posted by morrissey1209

Bros, if you are in a long distance relationship (especially now during COVID), would you ask for nudes from your gal?

Yes. Of course.

[victorlee10]

To be honest is there any harm in eating outside? I’m in the same situation as you. Sex is few and far between. In the past I would still beg for it but even when she obligates she will be lying there like a dead fish. After kids she does little grooming either so what I usually see is a chubby lady with saggy boobs and hairy pussy lying in a star position on bed waiting for me to get it over with. After a while I completely lost interest and now don’t bother to ask at all.

Going to WL allows me to fulfil all my needs, as and when I want it, and with whichever lady I fancy. After I’m done I just pay up and I go back to my family with no obligations to the WL. Sounds like a dream.

I think you need to get past the mental hurdle bro. Think about it, if you pcc to your hot colleague or the chio intern then aren’t you also satisfying yourself with another lady? Men don’t really have many indulgences, no expensive handbags or high tea, enjoy women while you can.

[hakone]

Originally Posted by victorlee10

To be honest is there any harm in eating outside? I’m in the same situation as you. Sex is few and far between. In the past I would still beg for it but even when she obligates she will be lying there like a dead fish. After kids she does little grooming either so what I usually see is a chubby lady with saggy boobs and hairy pussy lying in a star position on bed waiting for me to get it over with. After a while I completely lost interest and now don’t bother to ask at all.

Going to WL allows me to fulfil all my needs, as and when I want it, and with whichever lady I fancy. After I’m done I just pay up and I go back to my family with no obligations to the WL. Sounds like a dream.

If your wife finds you unattractive and decides to find men outside to satisfy her, are you ok with it?

[ibanezjem555]

Not meant to criticise bro, but if wifey like dead fish.. i doubt she is interested in other men..
Women not preoccupied with sex like men.. happy home, children to mother over is sufficient to quell their oestrogen n other hormones. women also get their thrills from branded handbags n wallets plus social gathering with friends..
Basically, they have many outlets but we men preoccupied with one outlet and work..

[victorlee10]

Originally Posted by hakone

If your wife finds you unattractive and decides to find men outside to satisfy her, are you ok with it?

Bro if you want to talk about morality then you’re probably in the wrong forum. I doubt anyone of us would openly share with our spouse that we surf sammy.

So you surf porn but I take it you don’t visit fl? Do you think of other women when you masturbate or have sex with your wife? Isn’t this 五十步笑百步？

[secretgarden]

In my opinion this is an avenue for all bros to have an outlet of frustrations and views. And most of the time there is much value to be viewed at objectively in which we can reflect in own lives. I really do not see why there are judgements made or moral polices saying what is right or what is wrong. Hey this is Sammyboy. If you do have enough morals i guess you’re at the wrong place.

Kudos to all bros who has the courage to talk and share their deepest reflections here. And thank you for it.

[nkyc]

My wife never give me so i eat outside pretty often. I just wanna advise all to chiong safely. I almost got tempted to do raw and the gal allow but i suddenly tot of the horror of contracting some STD and my family so i quickly asked her to stop and take condom.... She was definitely offended cos i say i scared which obviously meant that I don't trust her and suspect maybe she got some STD, haha.

[willroyce]

i have divorced my wife 3 years ago and im dating someone which i met in sugarbook for 1 year now and i feel that she is really good because me and my ex wife always has problem because of sex

[willroyce]

Originally Posted by secretgarden

In my opinion this is an avenue for all bros to have an outlet of frustrations and views. And most of the time there is much value to be viewed at objectively in which we can reflect in own lives. I really do not see why there are judgements made or moral polices saying what is right or what is wrong. Hey this is Sammyboy. If you do have enough morals i guess you’re at the wrong place.

Kudos to all bros who has the courage to talk and share their deepest reflections here. And thank you for it.

yes very true because this forums allows us to express our feelings and also get some advice

[willroyce]

Originally Posted by farkadipa

After marriage not too bad. It is after giving birth, where her energy & focus are on the little kids and not the old man. Just got to tell myself that the 'sacrifice' is for the kids... Hahaa

after my first son.. my sex life with my ex wife just went down the drain haih.....

[willroyce]

Originally Posted by secretlurker88

Just curious as I'm single. Why do you bros get married to such women? was it that they were very different before marriage? or is it even before marriage they didn't like sex already?

once there are kids involved, the priorities just change and sex life is neglected

[ahgore]

Originally Posted by willroyce

once there are kids involved, the priorities just change and sex life is neglected

Agree... but there may be spouse not happy about it. So end up divorce.