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13-05-2011, 03:15 AM
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Flings
Dear bros... i have been envy the expert bros here that they have so many flings where i have not even have a fling before where i have already hit my 30s.. Can anyone advise me on how to get a fling? As in where are the popular places or etc..
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13-05-2011, 03:23 AM
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Re: Flings
well, one place to get is to go for a wardrobe check. if your wardrobe out of 10 items, 6 items do not match any item in the man magazine fashion section. ..it is time for you to go some shopping. after which go for some facial and make your face nicer. appearance play a very large factor in knowing a lady
2nd will be your budget , so do some calculation before getting a fling.. there is a high end and a low end one budget.. so for high end is local at the night spot.. low end wil be maid at those pub or lucky plaza... so zap me if you think is rubbish..thank you
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13-05-2011, 03:35 AM
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Re: Flings
I am 25 this year and I got 4 flings currently though I am still studying at one of the local university.... The thing about your clothes .. your looks is very important to a girl... especially if u are looking for a fling
To get to know if a girl is interested in you be it in a bar or club, use the 10 sec eye-contact technique... If a girl look at you every 10-15 secs... its time for you to approach her and intro yourself... no need for cheesy pick up lines -> all those only for entertainment purposes.. Intro yourself, compliment her on what you feel, offer to buy her a drink, ($ needed) next use surface-chat -> means to talk about general things (the art of small talk) The smile works quite often for me if you have dimples that would be a added advantage... thats how I got my flings though I made out with them after a couple of outings nia... No local school chicks for me ( those are geeks)
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#4
13-05-2011, 03:50 AM
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Re: Flings
How do u actually start the convo?
Like intro urself... I think the first line is very important ya ? Thanks bro! Haha.
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13-05-2011, 03:55 AM
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Re: Flings
That I can't help you... haha it all depends on how you view the girl and the situation sometimes I do encounter barriers in finding the first statement to bring across to a girl...
If you would like can try the general one : Hi, I noticed you since you entered.. is this your first time ? but by using this first statement limits what you can or ought to say after she replied so use it cautiously
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13-05-2011, 11:45 AM
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Re: Flings
"Hi. I use Colgate. What about you?"
"You play Warcraft? CounterStrike?" "Ever go out without panties?" "I am Sammyboyforum member leh!" "You know what is FL? WL? BJ? HJ? FJ? AJ? GFE? RTF? Know or not?" "Where to buy vibrator ah?"
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#8
13-05-2011, 12:13 PM
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Re: Flings
To get a fling is easy , especially from Ang mo gals hanging around with ang mo guys . just approach them and ask the guy . can i f**k her . he will instantly fling you across the road ! there you go ! a instant fling !
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13-05-2011, 12:18 PM
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13-05-2011, 12:24 PM
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15-05-2011, 06:13 PM
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By any chance you are still a virgin? Or perhaps let me rephrase the question (since you could have lost your virginity to FL or pros): Have you ever had a girlfriend before - have you ever courted wooed a girl and had a steady sexual relationship with her? Cos if you never even successfully "chased" a girl before in your life, what more the chances of you getting a "fling" - which by definition is the sex minus the baggage and hassle of courtship - which implies in the ordinary sense of the word that you must be smooth enough to convince the girl and make her feel comfortable enough to go straight to the bedroom with you without all the courtship foreplay and security of bf/gf relationship.
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#14
16-05-2011, 01:35 AM
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Re: Flings
In any meetup or encounter, It is always the eyes that sends the first signal to the brain. You might have the slickest tongue but with a look of a begger, I doubt you gonna get the pool.
If a woman gives you the 2nd look, it is obvious her eyes are tell the brain you're worth looking at. Approach and do not be afraid to fail. Practice on your opening... good place would be an online chat room, many there waiting for you to pop your opening line. Once comfortable, offer something small and simple, like a simple drink. If she rejects, do not insist. Do general small talk and avoid personal question. Avoid close ended questions as they tend to shorten conversation. During the conversation, try to sqeeze in something which could tell her more about yourself. (Below is example) You: Hi there... Her: Wait for her reply (Normally she'll greet back) You: I'm (your Name), so (how's your day, you patron her often, etc) Her: (Normally she'll intro herself as well) You: Depending on local or etc (Talk about something in common about that local, eg. Food, Music, The Crowd, Ambience...) After awhile... offer her a drink, etc. After all the hard work, the following scenerio could happen; - Pick her up for a ONS - Get her contact - Spend more time at the joint and hope to see her again to score the above. If you're looking for a long term fling, normally they like abit of fishing. Sex normally would not be on a first date as that always end up in a one time fuck. Seriously, the list goes on and on... and if the above is a pain in the ass... You always have your right hand...
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#15
16-05-2011, 02:33 AM
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Re: Flings
Bro bangbangben is right... smooth as a cucumber, go nice and easy on the convo. Oh and dont worry if the first few times dont work as plan, keep notes on what you say/do and how the woman reaction towards it so that next time you can play the game better
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