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Old 07-10-2019, 02:36 PM
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Re: Have anyone fallen in love with a FL

Fully agree with what all have said. Just happen to be almost stuck.

Sometimes it’s hard and inevitable to fall slightly for the KC trap.

After a while, just need to realise that there is no future from this all. Everyone suffers. Her only freedom is when she make the money and go back home to change her identity or go to a place where no one knows her past then possible.

As I am typing this, I am now in a shop where the girl I also fell KC to is servicing another guy next door. We just came back from lunch date and she got a customer waiting. So I wait in the guest room.

I cannot hear what they are talking about. But I can almost imagine. this strikes a very strong reinforcement to me that, I am not why she is here for. I am unable to give what she needs.

There is no doubt that she likes me to a certain extend and sane likewise for me.

Unfortunately, this is the way we met. There is no good outcome to it.

Morning she do FL then night go KTV. This kind of lifestyle, after some time I also cannot take it.

Most of times, people doubt if the feelings are true. I just seem to see clearer and clearer now that even if it is true. There may not be a good outcome to it for both of us.

Time for me to make the hard choice of leaving and let her live her life the way she wants it to be.

Time to let go....

I feel partly to blame for pushing it further than a F&G relationship. To develop things that should not have. In this process also hurting her.

Reminder to self, F&G. Better for everyone. Pay money, don’t play feelings.
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Old 07-10-2019, 02:52 PM
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Re: Have anyone fallen in love with a FL

If u r married just treat it as a transaction. Don't be too serious.

She may just treat you as a part time bf. Someone there for her when she need in this foreign country. Once she go back she don't want anything more from you. That my thought.

Anyway Yolo. Haha.. happy is the most important thing.
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Old 07-10-2019, 03:56 PM
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can have sex with them but NEVER NEVER fall in love with them
i went through that hell. exactly of love with one, I did silly thing went to changi bungalow (she never visit me even one time, in fact she run road with my $)
because of love with her, also because of my own stupid and lost of sense, I lost everything - my flat, my wife, kids, jobs, future.

I deserve all the punishment as I cause so much suffering and shame to my family.
This bitch (sorry to use this word) promise to visit me in changi but I learn after my release that she ran off on that very day.
Of course she cannot be contacted now.
Wah bro, your encounter like from a movie. Please share with us your true story. Some bros might need it to see deeper and learn from it.
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Old 07-10-2019, 04:01 PM
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can have sex with them but NEVER NEVER fall in love with them
i went through that hell. exactly of love with one, I did silly thing went to changi bungalow (she never visit me even one time, in fact she run road with my $)
because of love with her, also because of my own stupid and lost of sense, I lost everything - my flat, my wife, kids, jobs, future.

I deserve all the punishment as I cause so much suffering and shame to my family.
This bitch (sorry to use this word) promise to visit me in changi but I learn after my release that she ran off on that very day.
Of course she cannot be contacted now.
Bro, I feel you as I am typing this away. I was in the same situation as you except that I was in the verge of going into Changi bungalow.

It was during the detention locked up that i came to my sense. While I was inside, I see people arrested for drugs, rioting, robbery and some petty crimes. It just made me realized that I might have lost everything but I must not lose myself.

Similarly, I lost my career, my house, my wife and my children. I was devastated and thought that I will never stand up again.

Luckily for me, things turn out well after I come to sense. I see more of myself of a human.

Sometimes, I still recall moments of the past with her but instead of missing her, it comes more of a reflection call to me, to constantly remind myself that what I went through is a lesson learnt the hard way.

And most importantly, should I ever bump into her again, I will not walk away. I will go up to her, and thank her for making me stronger than ever.

I hope you are on your way back up again and I wish u all the best bro.
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Old 08-10-2019, 12:37 AM
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It was during the detention locked up that i came to my sense. While I was inside, I see people arrested for drugs, rioting, robbery and some petty crimes. It just made me realized that I might have lost everything but I must not lose myself.
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Well said. All the best on your fight back
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Old 08-10-2019, 08:02 AM
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Wah bro, your encounter like from a movie. Please share with us your true story. Some bros might need it to see deeper and learn from it.
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bro, my story like movie? yes i even won 3 awards -
Most Dumb Award;
Most Asshole Award;
Most KC Award.

I am sorry for the hurt and damage and pain to my family.
I am not sorry for myself as I deserve to be wack as I am asshole, my punishment is never enough, never able to recover the shame i brought to my family.
Now I work as a painter, don't drink or gamble or even buy 4D or ktv.
But I still have the itchy feeling to release so must scoot for cheaper ones.
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Old 08-10-2019, 08:46 AM
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Re: Have anyone fallen in love with a FL

Just stay strong
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Old 08-10-2019, 09:01 AM
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Old 08-10-2019, 09:17 AM
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Re: Have anyone fallen in love with a FL

Bro, this one hard to help... Haha

I myself already semi retired mode le.. think I old le... Mindset is much better as I experience alot in my life. So for me I can control much more.

Think you still young. Anyway play with care and safety. Don't ever have a relationship with a FL or wat. If only you are rich.

I have friends earn quite ok marry ktv gals and also know a few ktv gals married to guy that are wealth off. Most of them are living happily.

They come here to escape proverty so money is what they want. I feel that they are not wrong.
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Bro, this one hard to help... Haha

I myself already semi retired mode le.. think I old le... Mindset is much better as I experience alot in my life. So for me I can control much more.

Think you still young. Anyway play with care and safety. Don't ever have a relationship with a FL or wat. If only you are rich.

I have friends earn quite ok marry ktv gals and also know a few ktv gals married to guy that are wealth off. Most of them are living happily.

They come here to escape proverty so money is what they want. I feel that they are not wrong.
True . there are games only those with deep pocket can afford to play .
No money pocket not deep ones better wake up the idea go live a normal.decent life before falling into a pit , pin on false hope only lead to die faster .
Don't compare to the others .
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True . there are games only those with deep pocket can afford to play .
No money pocket not deep ones better wake up the idea go live a normal.decent life before falling into a pit , pin on false hope only lead to die faster .
Don't compare to the others .
Yes. Just try to live happily and be contented.

It a rich man game. Or if u are handsome like Andy Lau. Haha
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True . there are games only those with deep pocket can afford to play .
No money pocket not deep ones better wake up the idea go live a normal.decent life before falling into a pit , pin on false hope only lead to die faster .
Don't compare to the others .
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Bro, u are right.
some have deep pockets but not deep enough for the girls.
some have deep love for the girls but too bad girls feelings for them are shallow
some want to poke deep deep but the girls only want to sleep sleep
in the end, we customers pain deep deep, both pocket and heart

as for me, pocket shallow, girls treat me also shallow.
like this also good lah, no deep deep pain like like time
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Yes. Just try to live happily and be contented.

It a rich man game. Or if u are handsome like Andy Lau. Haha
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Bro, u are right.
some have deep pockets but not deep enough for the girls.
some have deep love for the girls but too bad girls feelings for them are shallow
some want to poke deep deep but the girls only want to sleep sleep
in the end, we customers pain deep deep, both pocket and heart

as for me, pocket shallow, girls treat me also shallow.
like this also good lah, no deep deep pain like like time
No Andy lau looks and without high roller pocket can be a blessing too , at least boh quantity not qualify enough to enter the game .
Like me for example , after so many years i still yet got that chance to walk into the Casino at MBS . reason pocket not deep enough for me to qualify enough to walk in to have a game or two .
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No Andy lau looks and without high roller pocket can be a blessing too , at least boh quantity not qualify enough to enter the game .
Like me for example , after so many years i still yet got that chance to walk into the Casino at MBS . reason pocket not deep enough for me to qualify enough to walk in to have a game or two .
Good... Going casino is not for normal people including those rich. Know alot of rich bankrupt or jump.
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[QUOTE=leong26;19296905]No Andy lau looks and without high roller pocket can be a blessing too ,
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no need to look like Andy Lau. as long as you have enough $, just walk into any spa they will serve you, call you lao bang etc etc
with extra $, they will gibe you extra ingredient too
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