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Re: Advice - liking someone I shouldn’t
If she was in the Fl before , providing sex for money .then i tell you she 99% still got other man looking for her. Might keep in contact with a few man . Those man might fly to turkeys to find her just like you .
Work in another industry, does not mean she not provided sex for money with other close contact guy . Just like one of them is you. When you go over there , did you give her money? If free then good for you |
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Wow turkey FL.... Personal advise, blood thicker than water, family is mort impt.
Maybe good to really examine whether the issue can be solved by finding other outlets of de-stress ba I notice that if u can travel to turkey to find an ex FL without triggering anything with your wife there is value to keep this wife la |
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move on , dont spoil your life
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just have sex thats all, dont be emotionally attached
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Thanks for all the advice…I do try to get my mind off her by turning my attention to the other okt’s gals here but somehow I did not enjoy the sex as much as I had with her. Guess it will take some time.
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A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
She lives in a foreign land - no matter how good it was distance more so than anything else (another guy / lost of interest etc) is the biggest killer. Divorce is very expensive in Singapore. There is simply no getting around to it. Sacrificing your partner AND half your wealth for a person half a world away makes no sense to me. Even if the person is here it is highly debatable. We engage FL for sex and the relationship should stop and end at sex. As long as she treats you like the most wonderful thing on earth during that 2-3 hours, that's all you can ask for. Outside of this 2-3 hours, she has her own life and it is her prerogative to have as many guys as she wants. Understand that concept and you can attain first among equals status which is the best outcome for FL type relationships. |
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From your posts, i think you have sunk too deep and you, yourself know it very well. What kind of emotions you get when you think of her? is it the best you had? You need be in a very rational state of mind when you need to get people out of your head.
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Go for it lah. Don’t have to get divorced if the FL doesn’t mind.
You want to continue to treat your wife right because she rightly deserves to be treated well. She stuck with you for many years and made a family with you and probably is the one who looked after you. You probably feel that she has not done anything wrong to deserve a divorce. And you are right. This is life. George Lam 林子祥 has a song about this 最爱是谁. You thought you would grow old with your wife but you also feel you want more out of life than just having a lifelong roommate. Then you leave your wife and go with the newfound love. It’s good and you have many happy years then the itch starts again. And you start to miss your wife. She had something there when you were together. In the end you also not sure who you really love. But why not just live both of them? You will need to do the balancing. If our polygamous Muslim friends can do it, it means it is possible to love more than one woman at the same time. Although the Chinese emperor is have many wives and concubines, in the end, they also only love that 3-4 women. I think men are not made for monogamy 😂. Maybe it’s my excuse. But hey, life is short. Do what you feel is right for you. |
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