Wife Bestie. Go or no go

[ERO619]

go ahead , who knows maybe your wife also "eating" outside.

[V123]

Originally Posted by weiwei09

Good idea. In fact a few years ago, before I got married, I met with her for coffee once just the 2 of us.. Will keep this posted if this fantasy becomes a reality..

To be on the safe side, maybe you can ask her out for a drink and said you wan discuss something with her with regard to your wife. Once meet up, just pretend and seek her opinion on maybe wan to get a present for your wife birthday or valentine day, so seek her advise. the reason for that is just in case, she really go tell your wife that u jio her out, at least you can claim that you wan seek her advice in order to give your wife a surprise.

Once meet up, it's up to you on how to flirt with her liao. at least casually bring up to her on her advice/opinion for a present for your wife as a safety net

[FatSpider]

g string lol

[driver6699]

Originally Posted by weiwei09

How do u guys bring up the topic of sex. like how does she satisfy herself since shes currently single. I'm sure many bros here have much experience about this.

Start by asking what she do in her free time, did she miss being in a relationship, what is important in a relationship --> sex..works for me

[Jay Chou]

Originally Posted by ERO619

go ahead , who knows maybe your wife also "eating" outside.

Up u bro. 😊

[Jay Chou]

Originally Posted by draven78eric

Well as i mentioned, Depends on one's perspective.
Once one's perspective is change, its a totally a game changer...

Up u bro. 😊

[BushTracker]

Originally Posted by weiwei09

Lets see... if i ask her out alone for a drink wo my wife and she agrees, also means shes up to smth ya?

Not that I am encouraging and egging you on, but if you want to have an excuse to ask her out w/o your wife, just use planning a surprise party for your wife as an excuse, or want her opinion for a surprise present for your wife.

But seriously, if you are even tempted, that means you are really attracted to her. Think about it, if you really go down this road, it will only leads to hurt for one or all parties involved. There is no possible scenario where there is a happy outcome in the long run.

[draven78eric]

Originally Posted by ERO619

go ahead , who knows maybe your wife also "eating" outside.

i understand many of the guys, only allow ownself go eat outside but cannot accept own wife go outside eat even she will return home after "eating"...

[Gamerboy]

I’m just curious if TS did anything notti now that Valentine’s Day just went by...

[weiwei09]

Originally Posted by Gamerboy

I’m just curious if TS did anything notti now that Valentine’s Day just went by...

Thought about it but didn't... But, we have been whatsapping each other regularly...Still in a "to be or not to be" kind of mode.

And the last 2 times I made love to wife I just picture her bff... Cum so much faster...

[waaaaaa]

Play it passive and let her lead. Look out for signs of trouble coming. Must be clear headed

[Devil320]

The repercussions may not be worth it when found out. Your wife gonna lose a BFF, and you gonna lose your wife. Not a good exchange considering your current good life. I get the thrill but right after it, I think your kuku jiao will shrink and your big head will tell u, you just fucked and got fucked.

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by draven78eric

i understand many of the guys, only allow ownself go eat outside but cannot accept own wife go outside eat even she will return home after "eating"...

Yes, these r the possessive hubbies with double stds who are in the majority...not many r magnanimous enough to allow their wives to enjoy similarly...some of them even threaten their wives with divorces

[weiwei09]

Originally Posted by Rickey

Yes, these r the possessive hubbies with double stds who are in the majority...not many r magnanimous enough to allow their wives to enjoy similarly...some of them even threaten their wives with divorces

Why not. As long both parties dono can alrdy. I caught my wife cheating before we got married. I forgive and married her but I never forget. From then on I chiong evey week. Ktv and ML. I do feel what I am doing now today is partly due to her.

Recently we had a big fight and I found she was contacting him. Who knows maybe she is already eating iutside.

[KingEros]

Originally Posted by weiwei09

Why not. As long both parties dono can alrdy. I caught my wife cheating before we got married. I forgive and married her but I never forget. From then on I chiong evey week. Ktv and ML. I do feel what I am doing now today is partly due to her.

Recently we had a big fight and I found she was contacting him. Who knows maybe she is already eating iutside.

THERE, you have the biggest smokescreen to make the approach on the BFF ... ask her out on the pretext that you need her help
During the meet, then you play confused ... before divulging your concerns that you found out your wife is contacting the previous fling

One possibility: you get into the BFF’s pants, while playing the poor vulnerable Mr Good Guy who needs a shoulder to cry on ... once there, it’s all up to you how to proceed sexually

Another possibility: BFF knows & shares all of your wife’s CCAs ... either ways, a win-win for you

God Luck!!