Advice from married bros

[ucla]

Originally Posted by BushTracker

Brother, I am wondering if you are married yourself. You have a very simplistic view of marriage. If it were as simple as you say, divorce rate will be much lower.

i am married. And i still play around too. Is all abt time management and alway put ur wife n kid in priority. The rest r secondary. understand the rule of the game, never too into it.

[candeo_88]

Sometimes, a woman's instinct is truly amazing. She will pick up the slightest change in attitude and behaviour in a man...

Originally Posted by bewan

Most important thing is the wife must not know of the cow's existence

[MagicFingers]

Originally Posted by bewan

Most important thing is the wife must not know of the cow's existence

Otherwise, Cow pei Cow bu and no milk for you?

[SammyLee88]

if you wish to have freshness on your marriage live, go on sugarbook.live and you know what to do and what not to

[SammyLee88]

Originally Posted by afterburn

Best of both worlds Enjoy the cows outside once a while, but don't ever let them get into your head.

need to have good control over the outside girl, if not will gg

[SammyLee88]

play shiok shiok when you are still single. Once married, hard to play

[SammyLee88]

Originally Posted by regjoe

There are push and pull factors.

Push factors: mindset change from within, perhaps one day you may feel that all the fooling around is meaningless and you'll want something more stable. Maybe not something as big as a family with kids, but a stable committed relationship with the right partner.

Pull factor: the right person changes your views mindset on the world, makes you see everything in a more mature and different light.

hopefully can married the right people, if not, all well said is not well done

[quok]

Originally Posted by SammyLee88

need to have good control over the outside girl, if not will gg

What is gg?

[WinterMelonTree]

When a pussy feels like just another pussy then you know it's time liao.

I still recall my first experience of pussy. That exhilaration, that intense excitement and slight anxiety. When I felt I will literally do anything for a piece of action. The thoughts of slipping off the panties and wondering how it looks, how wet it is etc etc.

After years in the game, a pussy is just another pussy.

This seems like 廢話, but if you know it, you know it.

[rix6669]

Wondering if anyone really able to stop "playing" if they found the love of their life?


I mean marriage after 5 or 10yrs, not exciting and tend to look for excitement outside.
Sometimes I not sure if i buried my "play" side too much too long, or because I simply don't love my wife much now. I still care for her but same time constantly controlling my lust.

I still always look out for opportunity to play, provided no chance of getting caught. But it's just secondary priority like a bro mentioned above. Problem is I always constant look out for opportunity. Sometimes find myself weird why I'm so full of lust for excitement and thrill.

Maybe when kids come along, I get less time to be distracted by my lust?

Lastly, now in my 30s,I always thinking when I'm old, will I regret more for my married life but little play time, or if I should have chosen to be a bachelor and play til I can't.

[piichai]

This is what i learnt

Dating, go out and have fun, sleep over and all that is fun.

Just do not get married and stay together.

Thats where the shit starts

[limking]

Men are born with 2 heads . The upper head with a brain & the lower brainless head . The moral of the whole thing , you guys go figure it out .

[dreamger]

Originally Posted by SammyLee88

if you wish to have freshness on your marriage live, go on sugarbook.live and you know what to do and what not to

All talk only, no proof

[KingBong]

The goal is to marry someone who you want to play with everyday, and she the same. Whether such person(s) exists is another question altogether.
Never forget that people are like the weather, they will change, only you don't know when. There is a saying: never put all your eggs in one basket. The thing is women are just as smart these days, so they are also putting their eggs in other baskets. Can't blame them actually; it's silly not to do that in current times.

[Piledriver]

Originally Posted by piichai

This is what i learnt

Dating, go out and have fun, sleep over and all that is fun.

Just do not get married and stay together.

Thats where the shit starts

Exactly.

Just like the famous quote by Steve Jobs on dating- "When you are in love, wonders happen. But once you are married, you wonder what happened"