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Old 27-01-2020, 06:51 PM
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successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

Dear all senior bros, i am on a 6 month relationship with a thai girl.

Yes i met her in a bar and right now she is no longer working but rather working in a restaurant in thailand.

So far we both have expressed mutual interest in wanting to stay long term together and my eventual plan is to bring her to singapore because i want to marry her.

Any bros who had successful long distance relationship with thai girls able to give your advice? Particularly bros who have a thai wife now?

What are the challenges you guys face with a LDR relationship?

Appreciate all the help i can get.

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Old 28-01-2020, 01:38 AM
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

Bro,

Please read through all the thread in this section.

I am hopping you had long lasting relation, but some times reality is different.

6 months is too early compare when you are married and gone through another 20 plus years

I still believe the 1% true love. But please read through all the tread here and you will understand what i said
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Old 28-01-2020, 07:20 PM
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

2 red flags spotted:

1. know for 6 months
2. worked in bar

Best to maintain LDR for at least 2 years before any plan for marriage. Its not easy, thats why if u cant even survive that period of time then really can forget about marrying that girl.
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Old 28-01-2020, 08:59 PM
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

It’s always better to be careful when one marries another person from a different culture. Don’t think about marriage so soon...stay with each other for a while and see whether both of you can live together without getting on each other’s nerves.

Otherwise, you’ll become one of the many sob stories like the following that just appeared in Straits Times a few days ago: https://www.singaporelawwatch.sg/Hea...eged-abduction

Good luck bro!
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

Financially are you stable to support her and her family? If I am not wrong have to take care of her family as well. But I don't know how much does it cost per month
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Old 29-01-2020, 12:27 PM
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

I have some friends who married Thai FLs and still happily married. Thus I believe it is really case by case. If you married a wrong girl, there goes your marriage.
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

I have friends who know thai girl for 5 months and get married now living happily but her wife working in hospital.

you need to spend alot effort and time flying here and there..long term wise it will be tiring as you will keep thinking she got cheat u anot. unless she can find a job in singapore which will be much easier for you two.

as you mentioned she work in pub before, advise you to go her hometown and visit her parents first. Usually work pub / club have family issue. unless you have the money to support everyone in her family.

good luck bro!
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

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Dear all senior bros, i am on a 6 month relationship with a thai girl.

Yes i met her in a bar and right now she is no longer working but rather working in a restaurant in thailand.

So far we both have expressed mutual interest in wanting to stay long term together and my eventual plan is to bring her to singapore because i want to marry her.

Any bros who had successful long distance relationship with thai girls able to give your advice? Particularly bros who have a thai wife now?

What are the challenges you guys face with a LDR relationship?

Appreciate all the help i can get.
you need to know what's the reason of her working in a bar and also the real reason why she stopped. Because money made from bar is at least 5x higher than working in a restaurant.
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

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you need to know what's the reason of her working in a bar and also the real reason why she stopped. Because money made from bar is at least 5x higher than working in a restaurant.
Krabi is right, if she stops working at the bar and in a normal restaurant because she will find it guilty to carry on work at the bar then that’s fine.
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

Money makes the world go round. If you can support her lifestyle (that of a bar girl) and her family, you have a chance of making this work. If not its going to be tough going given the additional challenge of culture differences etc.

I have seen success stories between Thai women and SG men. Each of the men though are able to hold their own financially (i.e above average Singaporean wage).
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

Six months considered short and moreover, its LDR, how many days in all 2 of you together take it easy and know each other more Maybe you can find better ones after you met few more at another bar
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

she might still be working FL/Bar and tell you she work at restaurant, you are not there, and there is no way to know for sure if she stopped working.


i've heard many stories and some FL share with me too, that they are working without the knowledge of their bf

it doesn't mean she doesn't love you, just that they need the money

But i've also talked to FL that say they totally dont love their man and just use them for financial support.

did she ask for $$$?

btw you should check out this utube channel where the dude gives a lot of advice for having a thai partner

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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

Their culture all different, not easy.

Need to talk and have agreement, don't later after marriage you have to feed her whole family then a bit tough liao.
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Dear all senior bros, i am on a 6 month relationship with a thai girl.

Yes i met her in a bar and right now she is no longer working but rather working in a restaurant in thailand.

So far we both have expressed mutual interest in wanting to stay long term together and my eventual plan is to bring her to singapore because i want to marry her.

Any bros who had successful long distance relationship with thai girls able to give your advice? Particularly bros who have a thai wife now?

What are the challenges you guys face with a LDR relationship?

Appreciate all the help i can get.
Recommend you this book call"Private Dancer" by Stephen Leather. Most thai bar gal story end up the same.

You marry her, you marry the whole family. Gd Luck Bro.
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Re: successful relationship or marriage with thai girl

I dated long distance r/s with my wife for 10 years. Now married for 2.5years, kid is few months old..

R/s is how both of your manage and how committed both party are.. u love the person, distance is not a prob. Whats app video call, line video call, tech is there.

Culture is different, correct. But this should not be a prob, everyone give in here and there prob solve.

Love is all about giving in!!
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