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Old 15-08-2020, 04:00 AM
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Maybe this should not even be asked. After all what happened to the vows that you made? But males are wired differently I guess. Which male do not lust for a younger sweeter more tender girl?

There is a difference between lust and love. But no use explaining to the missus. How does one avoid falling into the syt lust trap, especially at this day and age?
Males are wired differently?
Do you know its easier for a woman to cheat? Considering that a woman can come multiple times than a man can scientifically?
You wrote: which man dont lust for a younger sweet woman, let me ask you back then, which woman don't lust after a younger man who is more fun to hang out with?
Lack of self discipline and lack of self control is a character flaw.
Nothing to do with being a man or woman. Opportunities are everywhere and anywhere. If a woman can be faithful then shame on the man.
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Old 15-08-2020, 11:28 AM
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Males are wired differently?
Do you know its easier for a woman to cheat? Considering that a woman can come multiple times than a man can scientifically?
You wrote: which man dont lust for a younger sweet woman, let me ask you back then, which woman don't lust after a younger man who is more fun to hang out with?
Lack of self discipline and lack of self control is a character flaw.
Nothing to do with being a man or woman. Opportunities are everywhere and anywhere. If a woman can be faithful then shame on the man.
Clearly it is not opportunities that limit women from being unfaithful. It was said in jest that a man is only as faithful as his options, ie opportunities. Would be funny if it weren’t true to a large extent.

Now if it’s only an issue of self control and discipline, it would beg the question of why so many men who’s professional achievements can only result from exceptional self discipline and control in their lives fall so easily to temptation? Even when they have everything to lose, and the rational part of their brains know it?

Why are men so lacking in self discipline and control when it comes to sex compared to women?
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Why are men so lacking in self discipline and control when it comes to sex compared to women?
Well said.

At the core of all our existence, are sexual energy. Creation and destruction.

The wanting, the denial, the absence and the orgy of it. All stories starts with it.

Opposite will be peace and the world will cease.
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Old 15-08-2020, 04:17 PM
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Males are wired differently?
Do you know its easier for a woman to cheat? Considering that a woman can come multiple times than a man can scientifically?
You wrote: which man dont lust for a younger sweet woman, let me ask you back then, which woman don't lust after a younger man who is more fun to hang out with?
Lack of self discipline and lack of self control is a character flaw.
Nothing to do with being a man or woman. Opportunities are everywhere and anywhere. If a woman can be faithful then shame on the man.
Women cheat just as often as men do.
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Simply put, it seems that women are better at having affairs than men.

The news that Farrah Fawcett had a secret affair for 11 years without telling a soul is a classic example of the way a woman cheats: discreetly, in secret, and while carrying on with the rest of her life as normal.

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It has been met with hot denials by Ryan O'Neal, but - and I'm sorry to break it to you this way, Ryan - you'd be the last to know.

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Well said.

At the core of all our existence, are sexual energy. Creation and destruction.

The wanting, the denial, the absence and the orgy of it. All stories starts with it.

Opposite will be peace and the world will cease.
Larue and LadyRain are both pyscho-pathetic women. And u still want to reply to both of them. U want to be pyscho go ahead, dun drag the rest of the guys, including me, to go pyscho with them.

Lazy to reply to these pyscho-pathetic women, they can reply or do whatever they want. Bec of listening to these pyscho-women, several guys will straightaway jump into the sea.
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Being mutual and not on an emotional level.
The way this thread began was more about absolving himself of the responsibilities of his bad behaviour by stating men are wired differently. However it certainly doesnt justify our own infidelities.
I did not say women dont cheat. I said it is a character flaw which is probable whether your gender is a male or female.
Well, it is difficult to process this topic any further as guilty information would only be available to people who are accountable and responsible.
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Being mutual and not on an emotional level.
The way this thread began was more about absolving himself of the responsibilities of his bad behaviour by stating men are wired differently. However it certainly doesnt justify our own infidelities.
I did not say women dont cheat. I said it is a character flaw which is probable whether your gender is a male or female.
Well, it is difficult to process this topic any further as guilty information would only be available to people who are accountable and responsible.
Perhaps the threadstarter is not trying to absolve himself of blame but rather admitting a weakness of his difficulty to stay faithful?

Imo when it comes to fidelity, it's not about which gender are more susceptible to be tempted. So long as there's sufficient unmet desires (not just sex), the person will be tempted to cheat when the opportunity knocks on the door and the seducer can fill the void. The view that man are wired more to succumb is flawed, and is more of the historical gender inequality that led to male infidelity being viewed as common. Because woman in the past are either not allowed to voice their opinion or no one cares about what they say, hence the male species take the cheating route more boldly with less fear of being judged, since the female voices are muted. Even though gender equality has evolved tremendously since then, the long history of inequality has molded both gender to continue view infidelity is more common in guys and if a girl commit adultery, it seems uncommon or wrong, as traditionally it does not happen as much, but not because female are less tempted, rather, it is due to inequality that prohibited them to be bolder back then.

Have commented in a recent thread "7 year itch" that I have my own experiences with married ladies cheated on spouses. So I definitely do NOT think male infidelity is due to how we are wired vs the ladies. An unsatisfied person will be tempted, just that man will be more likely to execute it because history makes such acts deem more "normal" when a guy does it. Girls will have more reservations due to society perception when a girl is found cheating. It also means that when a girl does it, she has broken free of ancient mindset and is willing to seek happiness of her own, to hell with traditional thinking. That, is very brave and sexy imo. Right or wrong? Let's not go there..

The key difference between how man and women are wired, is largely on how we are attracted to the opposite sex. Man are visual creatures. Women are emotional animals. To tempt a man, a woman usually just needs to show her cleavage, lots of legs and looks hot to him. To seduce a woman requires way more craft and efforts..if any guys feel that just having 6 packs and a great body will work then he is in for a rude shock. My 2 cents of opinion. Happy Sunday folks.
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Re: How to stay faithful

One of my life goals is to conquer my wayward mind.

I am learning how my past experiences affect my emotions and behavior in adulthood.

For example, the media I frequently consume can affect the way I look at women.

I am learning to look at women objectively, instead of subjectively.

If I look at women objectively I feel less desire towards them.
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One of my life goals is to conquer my wayward mind.

I am learning how my past experiences affect my emotions and behavior in adulthood.

For example, the media I frequently consume can affect the way I look at women.

I am learning to look at women objectively, instead of subjectively.

If I look at women objectively I feel less desire towards them.
How do I try to look at women objectively?

For example I notice a woman with nice, shapely butt or breasts.

I become aware of myself noticing the woman.

I ask myself why do I notice her butt and breasts?

Then I think of the butt and breasts objectively.

The butt is smelly and shit comes out of the anus.

The breasts are merely lumps of flesh and fat.

Why am I attracted to them?

Is it my childhood, my life experiences, or the media (porn) that lead me to notice woman in this way?

I am learning to look at a woman's body parts objectively and I believe it will change my perception of women.
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How do I try to look at women objectively?

For example I notice a woman with nice, shapely butt or breasts.

I become aware of myself noticing the woman.

I ask myself why do I notice her butt and breasts?

Then I think of the butt and breasts objectively.

The butt is smelly and shit comes out of the anus.

The breasts are merely lumps of flesh and fat.

Why am I attracted to them?

Is it my childhood, my life experiences, or the media (porn) that lead me to notice woman in this way?

I am learning to look at a woman's body parts objectively and I believe it will change my perception of women.
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