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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

kekekeke sounds like some churches out there that "requires" you to "donate" 10% of your mthly pay as "entrance" fee into god's kingdom ...
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

FL is short for FUCK & LEAVE. Want more from them, you looking for a lot of hurt & betrayal
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

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Just to share with the bros,

My ex "gf" is ex FL

These are the issues I faced when I first started with her

1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying
2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc...
- This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her.
3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper
4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL
5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection.
6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system.
But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either.
7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask.

Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it?

Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

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My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything. Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.
Words of wisdom bro.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

Hw can FLs hv relationship w u? U r deir clients. E relationship is based strictly on lui $ only.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

All Fl is the same money money money and money, His is all they know they are really selfish....
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

When u know u are not in the right track with them run hide quickly...
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

Relationship is created on feeling.

And feeling is not something you could + ? - ? x ? / ? = ?

Trust your gut feeling better.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

Talk is cheap. You guys probably have yet to meet one that blows your mind. With a population of 1.5 billion i am sure there is one that suits you to a T, and hey she might be making a living in the flesh trade.

I am one not in favor of falling for FLs but i have seen some that are really drop dead kick ass gorgeous AND classy too.

Some are bright and witty and if their background were not so unfortunate they could have amounted to something better.

You dont want to let them into your life, then stay away from environments that they dwell in.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

Bros I am in need of serious help . Any one can pm me . I need advice .

Scenario = married guy with 2 kids and a rich viet pretty syt in love with me damm siao until I wanna ki siao .
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

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Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior View Post
Just to share with the bros,

My ex "gf" is ex FL

These are the issues I faced when I first started with her

1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying
2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc...
- This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her.
3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper
4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL
5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection.
6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system.
But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either.
7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask.

Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it?

Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.
Bro, total agree with you. A gal can be FL is not easy. You may think FL enjot sex with you. But please think, FL meet so many guys out there can have have better and why you.
Also, nothing in the world is free except you family. FL will eat your hard earn money slowly. Why a FL want to choose you if you got no money. You mean the whole world you really can satisfy her only. Then continue to dream...

Just pay, get what you want and forget.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

Look you can think for them or think for yourself. its just so simple. Chances are because they work in this trade, they have their guard up against men, because they know, its a transaction, and they are selling their bodies for money. FL/WLs are very street smart, you have to be to survive out there. I know some that now own massage parlours, condos etc...still doing the trade yet have someone Bao them. Now that is a skill.

if you think for them, you can try to understand why they do it, or did it, family background, whatever cock and bull reasons they have etc...
I feel they really love me etc...

Didnt your gf or wife love you? Now if they became your gf or wife(the fl/wl) would they appreciate spending years with you then you fall in love with another fl/wl? Sure they are human too, and we appreciate their service, GFE and the way they make us feel wanted(sometimes more than a wife or grumpy gf can)

FL/WL are Professionals, there to provide you a service, and you have a need. Demand and supply. Just like another other service or trade.
Do you eat salad at a salad bar then ask the salad bar staff to marry you or fall in love with you?

alot of people have reasons for their actions, but we all live to see the consequences. if you have family and you like another woman, you will pay the price, FL or not FL.

I find one of the best way to test is go and bonk another fl/wl in which you have GREAT gfe feel. Then tell me again if you can so keen on the one you profess to have fallen for. If yes, maybe something is deeper there. If not, its just falling in lust, not love.

No offence to FL/WLs they help me tide over some of my darkest moments with ex gfs that were downright shitty and cheated. If I didnt visit them during that phase, I might not be around anymore. Somehow even though I know its just a transaction, they made me feel wanted(read my story of my 6 ex gfs)

I have had some of the greatest sex with them, and for that experience body to body, I am thankful. We need them, thats a fact.

Of course they have feelings and they can love just like any normal person, and they can have emotions and someday they will quit, and try to move on, and forget the past. In reality, you never forget your past, you just try not to think about it. We all do when we make any mistakes, big or small. Now if you find one that has quit, its your ball game. Can you forget her past? Thats up to you.

Read my post reposted below and the issues I faced when I dated an ex FL

Just to share with the bros,

My ex "gf" is ex FL

These are the issues I faced when I first started with her

1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying
2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc...
- This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her.
3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper
4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL
5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection.
6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system.
But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either.
7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask.

Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it?

Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

Some of the PRC FLs that I know today are from middle class families & some even with degrees, they went HK, SZ, Macau, here & one even went Tokyo to earn a living. Two are happily married now with the hubbies in China. Damn everytime I think of that particular one my heart flutters

There was also a local SYT who did it because she wanted to go US for holiday with friends.

The modern females take this as a profession & part-time financial freedom. So guys, don't take it too seriously ok. We're just one of their suckers & it's always a transaction. You make them happy, they make you happy
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

Yes agree with you bro

thats why I look at this and I realise, we are just doing a transaction like everyone else.

http://www.thisav.com/video/855/%9D%...%85%85%99.html
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

A very good post by TS.

Suggest that all bros that are starting to develop feelings for the FLs to read through again to help wake up their idea.

Suspect that one FL that i fancied is now trying to KC. Will WeChat me to say sprain ankle, chat with me etc. Believe to a certain extend she was concern but leaving a long bait for me to bite.

Thanks to this thread have waken up my idea.
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