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Old 12-06-2012, 03:27 PM
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

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Saw your thread and reminded myself of the time I fell in love a FL.

They will treat you as their ATM, buy branded goods for her and family member.

Father got cheated of money, you have to help pay his debts.

Now I am broke and she is gone.

Bros, take heed of TS advice.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

I think the apt terms for these relationships should be ex- fb, the ex wl/fl

Always remember they are PROS- as in "PRO"STITUTE

So enjoy the fuck, feel like a man, with the GFE, the moaning like a AV Star,

pay like a man should for borrowing her body and move on.

The thing I realise after dating one of them is, it takes a certain person to be

able to bring themselves to do this kind of work, willingly in singapore, as

singaporeans, because its the land of opportunity if you work hard. But if you

take your gender as a short cut to materialistic living, then you sell your

body, soul and pride in exchange for money.

Can you accept this person as your equal even after they quit?

I have to say honestly, I am not the bigger man in this aspect. Thats why we broke up
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

Bros,

To add further:

I had my fair share of having FL for a girl friend. The sex is definitely great but the question is whether you can accept her for who she is. If you cannot than better not step inside. Run away or pay for it when you need it.

If she does not work and you are paying for her rent, food, and everything, then you must have deep pockets like example ferrari owners who can pay S$5K a month for her allowance. That does not include buying things like rolex, channel, LV.

If you cannot maintain her lifestyle, then better not get involved. The price is too much to pay.
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Old 12-06-2012, 07:41 PM
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

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Bros,

To add further:

I had my fair share of having FL for a girl friend. The sex is definitely great but the question is whether you can accept her for who she is. If you cannot than better not step inside. Run away or pay for it when you need it.

If she does not work and you are paying for her rent, food, and everything, then you must have deep pockets like example ferrari owners who can pay S$5K a month for her allowance. That does not include buying things like rolex, channel, LV.

If you cannot maintain her lifestyle, then better not get involved. The price is too much to pay.
Still is a transaction... 5k if for young syt is quite a fair deal... anything above 12k is overpriced and above market rate...

But do aware that keeping a mistress, is an exclusive transaction doesn't means you own her life, she still have the freedom to hangout with friends except to stop working as per transaction... and she also needs to know there is no love involved..
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Old 12-06-2012, 10:54 PM
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

Great post,bro. They're rarely worth the effort. Most of them use men the same way we use their pussies. Guy A for puppy love who does her bidding and menial stuff, Guy B as the ATM, Guy C wild stallion for hot sex etc Then their gambling, drinking habits will start creeping into the picture. Once you get the entire picture you'll realise its just trash you're dealing with after you filter away the sex. And even for the sex, you'll be paying for it in one way or another.

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Just to share with the bros,

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

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yunnamhaircare, Is it true that before one want to fall in love with FLs, (beside money) one must have a fabulous hair with herbal treatment?
LOL .. his "Hitman" avatar and his nick kinda contradicts kekeke
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

Interesting points made tho ... bottom line is EVERYONE is different ... that's why some are long tall short thick hung loaded thick skinned and what not ... same as the woman who is your F/L-gf , current gf, wife, FB, fling, SIL what not ... what applies for you might not apply for others ... just go in with your eyes open if you want to walk on the other side ... everything's been said and its' all written on the forum countless times ... it works for some but may not work for you.

We all just have to be tolerant and agree to disagree ... Yes ?
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Old 13-06-2012, 03:33 PM
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

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But do aware that keeping a mistress, is an exclusive transaction doesn't means you own her life,
Point noted. Sometimes difficult not to involve love (from the guy side) when I keep on bonking her. sigh
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Old 13-06-2012, 03:58 PM
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

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Point noted. Sometimes difficult not to involve love (from the guy side) when I keep on bonking her. sigh
If a guy keep bonking a girl may end up loving her......why a fl who keep bonking a particular customer won't fall for him??
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

if the person that is bonking the fl has no other options. then he will "fall in love" with the fl. If he has plenty of options, he will be able to see that this is just one of the many of the options that he has, whether it is sugarbabe, fl, fb or any other fanciful name man comes out with.

whether the fl is rich or poor is irrelevant. because the person should only be concern that he is rich, and he has no time to concern if the other person is rich or poor. and in order that he continue to be rich, he knows exactly how much to spend on the girl that is within comfortable range, and no circumstances or bullshit will change that. He will set for himself a threshold and if the fl exceed that threshold she becomes a liability to him, and he will terminate the relationship with the fl. but its easier said than done, because in the first place u are suppose to FnF with the FL, not date her.

This whole thing needs alot of self control & mental strength.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

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If a guy keep bonking a girl may end up loving her......why a fl who keep bonking a particular customer won't fall for him??
For a guy to keep having sex with a same girl (F/L or not), it doesn't mean he loves her or will end up loving her ... He could just be loving the sex and nothing else.

For a F/L, whatever reasons she's doing what she's doing is most likely becoz she's doing it for the $$$. Cash cow don't milk then what ?

But 2 sides to a coin lah ... have fun trying to figure out how the mind of a F/L works ...

Like Apo said ... in the first place u are suppose to FnF(F^#K & FORGET) with the FL, not date her. IF you happen to be in the case of ShadowWarrior/Betathong/Yunnamhaircare (maybe there are enough members to form AA support group - Hi my name is XXX, I have fallen head over heels for a F/L-W/L) ... then honestly gauge what's your threshold and if it exceeds, be prepared to stop and let go. Or else don't play with fire - at all.
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Re: Yes! You can actually fall in love with FLs! Please read

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TS actually given good advice if you look at them seriously. Comparing to the usual standard advice that fellow bros here give, this one quite new in perspective.

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Great post,bro. They're rarely worth the effort. Most of them use men the same way we use their pussies. Guy A for puppy love who does her bidding and menial stuff, Guy B as the ATM, Guy C wild stallion for hot sex etc Then their gambling, drinking habits will start creeping into the picture. Once you get the entire picture you'll realise its just trash you're dealing with after you filter away the sex. And even for the sex, you'll be paying for it in one way or another.
It's only sex, sex and sex the main the reason we go chiong... emotional needs can be meet eslewhere like your family, school friends.. dates with colleagues..

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Point noted. Sometimes difficult not to involve love (from the guy side) when I keep on bonking her. sigh
Love from sex is not love, is call high like drugs... is a positive feeling. there are many drugs to feel high.. if u not strong enough then stay away frm rtf..

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If a guy keep bonking a girl may end up loving her......why a fl who keep bonking a particular customer won't fall for him??
Cos the fl has options, you dont have.. you keep finding the same one and upz the mountains..

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if the person that is bonking the fl has no other options. then he will "fall in love" with the fl. If he has plenty of options, he will be able to see that this is just one of the many of the options that he has, whether it is sugarbabe, fl, fb or any other fanciful name man comes out with.

whether the fl is rich or poor is irrelevant. because the person should only be concern that he is rich, and he has no time to concern if the other person is rich or poor. and in order that he continue to be rich, he knows exactly how much to spend on the girl that is within comfortable range, and no circumstances or bullshit will change that. He will set for himself a threshold and if the fl exceed that threshold she becomes a liability to him, and he will terminate the relationship with the fl. but its easier said than done, because in the first place u are suppose to FnF with the FL, not date her.

This whole thing needs alot of self control & mental strength.
Very good piece of advice...
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When you start losing yours (menopause / stress / unhealthy diet / too much rough sex), you'll appreciate that there's someone out there who can give you a heads up and a hair-raising experience

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How sad is it to be setting so many rules to the one who sleeps beside u every night.
It isn't sad ... it's just practical and honestly it clears up any future "disappointments". You have standards for the type of guy you want as a boyfriend/husband right ? Don't you ?
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