Sex after birth - sexless?

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by bonbong88

Married with a 1.5 year old, honestly sex has became non existence. Maybe once a month, with some excitement here and there, else is really quite tired and fatigue from taking care of our child lol

Yes, it's sad ..this has been established as 1 of the main problems of a sexless marriage with husbands here in this forum n others outside who do not know of sammyboyforum existence

[LeeKH]

After kids, sometimes once or twice a month. I don’t understand why just can’t lie their and get fucked. Must put up with so much resistance and rejection.

[SandPipers]

Originally Posted by LeeKH

Must put up with so much resistance and rejection.

You really make a good point

[tegrity]

Originally Posted by fac89

Cant agree more to this. My wife was hot and hungry all the time. But then after 3 births.. tats it. Maybe 2-3 times a year? Not exaggerating on this. But ut has come to a point that i didnt request for sex since 5-6 mths ago.

Could be tired from taking care of the kids etc. Had bot many adult toys to spice up the bedroom activities but still not interested (Many valid excuses for not wanting to have sex.)

I can totally relate, especially after 3 kids. Maybe can count with 1 hand a year

[bighead111]

I read online that a mother job didn't stop with just looking after the house chores. So even if husbands help with the house chores and wife do nothing, their mind already planning what school, what activities, what class, etc etc etc for the kids.

If plus house chores, not only physically tired but also mentally tired.

[mikestc]

Originally Posted by LeeKH

After kids, sometimes once or twice a month. I don’t understand why just can’t lie their and get fucked. Must put up with so much resistance and rejection.

Feel for you Bro.. in same situation here... well, most locals woman are like this.. what to do??? thats life bro

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by mikestc

Feel for you Bro.. in same situation here... well, most locals woman are like this.. what to do??? thats life bro

But there r still quite a no. of wives out there who r still v. horny ones ...just that too bad u don't hv the luck to get to meet, know them n marry them ...envy their husbands get to enjoy them every morning n night of their lives tgt till they r so scared n 'jerlak' of having sex ...haha

[oldwabbit]

Originally Posted by Rickey

But there r still quite a no. of wives out there who r still v. horny ones ...just that too bad u don't hv the luck to get to meet, know them n marry them ...envy their husbands get to enjoy them every morning n night of their lives tgt till they r so scared n 'jerlak' of having sex ...haha

But if you ask their husbands, chances are they don't see their wives wonderful anymore. Familiarity breeds contempt. (Nothing is wonderful when you get used to it. ~ Edgar WatsonHowe)

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by oldwabbit

But if you ask their husbands, chances are they don't see their wives wonderful anymore. Familiarity breeds contempt. (Nothing is wonderful when you get used to it. ~ Edgar WatsonHowe)

I m glad bro oldwabbit agree 100% with wat I said that too much of anything e.g. sex, pple will feel "jerlak" after some time n will dread it after that...but here the majority of married bros r saying they married conservative LSD wives who would reject them for sex once the babies arrive as their wives concentrate n shift their time n energy to look after their newborn baby

[jucket]

Originally Posted by bighead111

I read online that a mother job didn't stop with just looking after the house chores. So even if husbands help with the house chores and wife do nothing, their mind already planning what school, what activities, what class, etc etc etc for the kids.

If plus house chores, not only physically tired but also mentally tired.

Don't try to turn the kids into superkids then maybe not so tired.

[georgie1994]

that is the reason i do not like marriage, i do love to be playful in sugarbook.live

[georgie1994]

Originally Posted by jucket

Don't try to turn the kids into superkids then maybe not so tired.

younger generation of parents always think their children is superkids, learn so many things after school

[georgie1994]

ladies need some time to recover after birth but at least, can help the husband do the blowjob

[georgie1994]

Originally Posted by oldwabbit

But if you ask their husbands, chances are they don't see their wives wonderful anymore. Familiarity breeds contempt. (Nothing is wonderful when you get used to it. ~ Edgar WatsonHowe)

becomes wife already, many already no wear sexy lace clothes, then the hubby cannot feel the freshness

[georgie1994]

Originally Posted by Hunkydunky

Why not try it with another guy to try?

one night stand or fwb is the most suitable relationship