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Originally Posted by lamelame76
Hey bro,
Thanks for replying. I understand that such a girl like her is not easy to come by, so I definitely won’t give up this rs cue of sex. It’s just Im not sure how I can make it work. You’re right, if all else fails maybe I should consult a sex doc.
And you’re exactly right on my job too, I have been feeling super stressed out by my job that even after switching jobs, I can’t get rid of my anxiety despite having a slightly better workload. Like you said, I have been in this continuous search of thrills - maybe this is why people end up streaking
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Not easy right, got attached liao but still want to fuck many other girls? I think most guys all have this same problem. But there are exception, in school last time i liked a girl very much that other pretty girls are invisible to me, not even sexual urge for other pretty girls. This girl i liked wasn't even that pretty at most a 6 to 7 for face. The issue is what are each guy's chances of meeting such a girl that you liked so much and she also like you. So just appreciate her and try to seek help from doctor first bah. Another problem is you are still not ready to settle down.
For me i continue playing around cos i haven't meet a 6-7 (in terms of looks) girl like last time who can make me like her that much and she like me also.
I guessed your job situation cos last time i also keep going to prostitutes because of my stressful job and end of OT feeling super void in the heart with no female company, friends also cannot fill the void. You could be feeling void in your heart also thats y you chase porn and fetish. Maybe try to get your gf involve sexually after your stressful job. Roleplay from your porno search buy sex toy. Like if you like bdsm then talk to your girl to agree to become your slave in bed instead of searching the net. If you like hidden camera then agree with her that you want to take hidden video of her and get her consent first agreed on paper. Do at hotel, then do at different hotel so can keep satisfying your fetish for new hidden camera. But of course do everything within the law. If both of you cannot compromise on this then you may have a problem in future coping on your own without eating outside. You may like to relook and find other girls who matches your sexual orientation and urges
Another possibility is because you feel the urge need to do something thrilling and secretive to curb your work stress that one i know thats why i go prostitute, thrilling and secretive. There is no quick cure for this, one of the way i try to curb it is by making it non-secretive anymore. I started by going to IMH and tell the doctors my problem. Then later I tell my siblings i go to find girls, i also tell my mum. It is important you only tell people whom you trust and can be trusted. You don't want other to use it against you. So these days i still like to browse prostitute cos all guys like girls one mah. But i feel i can delay visiting prostitute unless too much sperm clog the brain and need to release. It is natural to want to fuck girls. Mother nature at work.
Thrilling and secretive the reason why many married women have affairs outside.
Im guessing that the stress from work pushes our brain to a certain great limit, that a certain part in the brain become super active but numb at the same time and its calling the human to give it stimulation. Thats y the thrill seeking.
Lastly you search because you are bored, theres nothing meaningful for you to do after work and searching porn is to kill your boredom.
In summary i am guessing your urge to do something thrilling and secretive is your biggest issue that you need to tackle first.
pls up my points if my pointers help, thank you