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Originally Posted by ibanezjem555

Yes chill bro.... Only calm discussion...

Viet girl left her home to seek new life and fortune sure gas a motive, expectations and worries. She has to make good, care for herself, care for husband and children AND care for her father mother sis and brothers she left behind. This you must consider bro..

You marry her is marry into her family.. you support her and her immediate family back home. So that's love bro.. after marriage, you expect her to work n support the household or she homemaker ? Remember she is not a Sporean and won't automatic do things like a Spore wife like think of celebrating yr parents birthday, arrange tuition for kids, put emphasis on education, scold kids on your behalf yet do a full day job etc.. instead there will be the yearly obligation for you to follow her back to Vietnam to say hello to your in-laws.. so sex alone is not what makes a good marriage alone...

Also, there is possibility that she can leave you to makan half your assets, alimony if there are kids and CPF.. many have idea of three marriage in a lifetime milking income streams... Of course if one catch is good enough.. no problem n easy to latch on to one rich hubby leading a good life..

Not that Viet or PRC wife is bad attitude.. just natural survival instinct.. go in with two eyes wide open..

Fully agreed, well said bro