[renxun]

Not that simple. I had a vn gf of 3 years before we broke up... actually can try la..no harm trying.. differant people have differant tolerance. Its just that as other bro mentioned, we are the only one who are in actual control of monetory... they have poor financial management.. they do expect..but we are the captain of the ship to lead...as long as we are doing the right thing. Its ok... whether the person can stay or leave that is not in our control. The most precious thing i lost in that relationship is the time.. time passed could not wind back or earn back.. after felt that we could not continue, we cut off clean and clear