Originally Posted by stiffness
Wow.. thanks for reminding me of how much I used to write in the past where my FRs are "action packed" lol.
I'll be honest. I'm not trying to censor MRs but I'm trying to MANAGE EXPECTATIONS.
In the early 2014 years, when this thread first started, I think those old birds will know there're a few of us regulars, and we'd share honest detailed FRs and enjoy writing and sharing. Those years everyone respected one another and were mature enough, at least to me, to recognise that some people may get better services than others. Plus there were only a few stables then.
As the thread became more popular, more people came in and more people began to have higher expectations:
"If stiffness can see Fate's pussy, but why she never show me?"
"If stiffness got GFE, how come I didn't get it? She must be bad!"
etc.
You can see the debates that happen in those years, it's all there still. Worse, as BOTH stable OKTs and WLs know about this thread, they also have expectations:
"why you write so much!"
"Why you write so little??"
"why you tell people I fucked you when I didn't?"
"why you tell people we had a five way gang bang with a dwarf in a clown suit and a donkey??"
Trust me. I've heard enough from WLs who claim someone visited them and said there were me, or she said I told a brother visiting her that I fucked her or got some off menu services and he tried to force her to offer those services.
Things got heated. Debates went over pages and this thread became hard to maintain the focus on sharing FRs.
So to keep the peace, the less info the better. Whether it is detailed good MR or short good MR, is still a good MR for the WL.
The less discussion about off menu items, the less people will expect that they should be getting it.
I used to write detailed 'action packed' FRs. Now I don't even do that, because of the above reasons. I'd like to write detailed FRs but it gets interpreted the wrong way, or people say I work for OKT, or they use it to get what they want.
At the end, what you get is between you and the lady. There are some expectations as stated on their advertised page but beyond that, well, if you want to share, use the PM function to avoid misunderstandings. I mean, it may well be that your ass smells like strawberries to the WL and she loves strawberries and just want to AR you like nothing, but equally, your ass could smell of shit cos you didn't clean it properly. The WL who writes that they can do AR will be prepared for that, but I don't think it's fair to impose on another human, even if she is a prostitute, what she is comfortable to do or not, right?
I've even seen OKTs who are able to link an FR posted to the username and the actual person's hp number, and that gets shared online. Why? Maybe the brother didn't write a nice FR, I don't know. But this makes it very risky to even post FRs nowadays.
That's why I have rules to maintain the thread, or it loses its function of sharing. And share what you feel comfortable writing, but stick to the facts, and the rules. It's for everyone's interest, I feel.
If everyone is mature, respect one another, and manage their expectations like mature brothers, then there's really no need to censor or have rules. Problem is there's probably a few hundred people reading this thread at any one time, and they all have different expectations and demands. How to manage that?
By all means, point out if you didn't what the service as stated eg 30 mins instead of 60 mins, 69HJ stated but and you asked for it and she didn't give you etc, but anything more is a value add between you and her. If she wants to do it to every brother, she would state it up front right?
I'm trying to be fair to all fellow humans - brothers, and WLs. That's all.
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