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Originally Posted by Pictionary
Maybe i just write now before it gets worse. After each fucking, sucking of breast, corks and painting of vaginas, do both of the sexes do mouthwash and really use soap to wash their hands, before they continue? And the towels after use, do they really throw away after use? And the condom is what brand, if during penetration got hole how? Manufacturing of condoms have safety certificates that may be fabricated.
Dun just talk in general and talk like westerners or expats. U always over-describe in details about the swinging activities. But what about hygience and prevention? And dun always assume and brush it off just like that. Even if 0.01% chance of swingers never practise hygience, just say the blunt truth. And which nationality of swingers dun practise hygience? Let the readers decide for themselves whether to take risk to swing or not.
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Firstly, I want to say that there is no such thing as a bad question on this topic. Having said that, there appears to be a lot of misconceptions, poor suppositions, and in general lazy thinking on this topic of swinging/orgies/group sex. I think a lot of it is perpetrated by people who have never actually done it, but just make assumptions (erroneous or otherwise), and just try to pass it on as some version of what actually happens. In truth, its a lot different then what they think it is.
Your Questions:
1) Hygiene - Hygiene is personal to everyone. And this is a sex website. This website promotes sexual activities with prostitutes and escorts from Geylang, to Petain, to JB, and all the way to Indonesia and Malaysia and beyond. How does one know whether the prostitute has cleaned herself after the last customer? There are no guarantees. If you are so particular about this, perhaps you should not be on this site. In general, I think most bros here who cheong, know their own standard of hygiene they require of a pros. If she has a smell, poor personal appearance, stains, etc. Well, its up to you whether you want to screw her or not.
Ultimately, this is the same with swinger couples. There might be 3 or 4 or more couples on a bed, one big doggie pile.YOU ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO FUCK ALL THE GIRLS ON THE BED. And Girls, you are not obligated to fuck all the men on the bed either. If you don't like his face, his smell, his finger nails are dirty, etc. you don't have to fuck him. Even in a doggy pile on the bed, you have to ask permission to play with the other person. Its as simple as that. And No means No. If you see a girl on the bed has been eaten by 5 men, and had her nipples sucked by another 5, you are not obligated to be the 6th. I don't really know where you get this idea from that you have to be sloppy seconds after everyone else. Some people don't mind being the 4th or 5th guy to eat that pussy, but if its not your thing, you cannot be forced to do it. I have been in group action where I am the first guy on the girl, so I am happy to do all those things to her with my tongue. Any guys coming after me, that's their own business. Sometimes, my SO like to suck on a girl's tits, and I am next after her. Is her saliva on that girl's nipple, yes, but I don't mind, since she is my SO.
There are other ways to manage stuff like that. In her play bag, my SO will have condoms, gloves, lube, hand sanitizer, wet wipes, and even a dental dam. No joke. I have used a wet wipe to clean another girl's pussy before I dive into it. I have also applied hand sanitizer on my fingers, and play with the other girls nipples with my fingers, and then suck her nipple, with the knowledge that the hand sanitizer on her nipple has killed anyone's germ. I never kiss them on the mouth, especially DFK, and minimal fluid exchange is practiced by both of us. In fact, my SO will not even give BJ unless its covered by a condom. I use mouthwash to freshen my breath all the time before I play, and the towels are bath towels that you lay on the bed, in case someone has not changed the sheets. But the sheets in the playroom are changed after each couple has used it, and also the towel is there to prevent squirting women from getting the mattress too wet. When we play 2 on 2 with another couple in our cabin on the ship, we take a shower first and we encourage the other couple to do the same. Now, all this information is out there. I don't know how many bros use it. But the experienced participants in these swinger group activities use these tips to varying degrees.
-Condom Breaking and Brand of condoms - Seriously? I think there are more then enough studies done on the breakage percentage of condoms, and I am not going to add to that...... other then to say, do they break? Yes. They do. Have I had one break on me, I can't even remember when was the last time it happened. If that is a major concern of yours, and if you are so scared until you need to check the condom manufacturers safety certificate, then please don't participate in this activity of orgies, swinging, cheonging, etc. In fact, don't participate in any sexual activity at all, Because, yes, it could happen and break. And once again, here is where the lazy thinking comes in. YOU DON'T HAVE TO USE THE CONDOMS THEY SUPPLY, NO ONE IS FORCING YOU TO DO THAT. Because these cruises are originating from the US, mostly, I see they supply Trojans, and Lifestyles as the most common brands. I don't like any of them. I bring my own condoms, yes all the way from fucking Singapore. LOL. I like Okomoto, and I can't find them in the US, so I bring them from S'pore and use them on the ship. Most people bring their own condoms. Guys with really big cocks will bring Magnum condoms, and even my SO has told me some guys she sucked on were wearing flavoured condoms. LOL. So, please exert yourself a little mentally here, ok?
- And which nationality of swingers dun practise hygience - I had to laugh when I read this. U want me to name a nationality? I don't even know how to answer this. If you think the couple is unhygienic, don't play with them. If you think they never clean their private parts and that turns you off, don't play with them. But if MAria Ozawa came to you in an orgy , her cheebye smells, she never bathed, her finger nails are dirty and her breath stinks, you not going to fuck her? A lot of bros here will. IF YOU THINK THE OTHER COUPLE ARE UNHYGIENIC, DON'T PLAY WITH THEM, THEIR NATIONALITY IS IRRELEVANT.
- Whether to swing or not - Well, as per the heading on this sub thread, I already assume the people that come here have already made their minds up about whether to swing or not. In fact, many of the threads pertain to arranging swinging sessions with others. I am not here to try and persuade people to swing. I have no idea where you got this idea from. I am here to simply give my experience on swingers cruises. I would have thought that was evident, but I guess not to you.
Hope this addresses a lot of questions on this topic. Happy New Year everyone.