Re: Divorceed fall in to share your sob story
Do not confuse love with indulging a loved one’s flaws/ bad decisions. If say you have a wife who earns 2500 but wants to drive a car, indulging that would mean saying yes to an overleveraged lifestyle. Instead of helping her buy a car, help her obtain the means of buying a car. It could be a switch of occupation or enforced savings by sacrificing other luxuries. Many times we blame the other party for a decisions we ourselves supported unwittingly. Always reflect on ourselves first, that will help to improve our choices in the future.
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