Are wives in Singapore gold-diggers?
I am starting to think the women in Singapore are unlikely to keep the marriage vows. They will only stay with the men when the times are good and will cast the husband aside when he cannot give her what she wants and will find fault with the husband and eventually divorce the husband.
Then she will make you pay either alimony or child maintenance if you have children or both. It seems that most women here are gold-diggers. What do the brothers and sisters think? |
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I got this impression right now too.
The WC is too unfair for honest and down to earth typical SG guy.sigh. |
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That is what i’m facing now bro.
If her family or relatives are like this, i will suggest you dont keep the girl. They will just keep encouraging your partner to get divorce after that. Meanwhile they will just find fault with you irregardless of how well or how much you help and assisted them in the past. |
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Either ur ricebowl or to settle ur marriage/divorce proceedings? And it is not like any Senior Samsters here can genuinely and properly help me with any technical matters and I am not expecting it. That's enough of many talkings right now and no more bullshit talkings anymore. U can treat them to restaurants, not necessary MBS restaurant, then both of u settle amicably. And i am not going to go down to that level as you. A few of local fresh graduates can do R&D, talk properly and mingle around with other colleagues. So stop this nonsence right now, TS! |
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The truth is (and I think you know too), 一种米养百种人. You had bad luck to be with an unsuitable wife. For every terrible woman, there is at least one that is good; just that sometimes, need to look and try a few times. It is like everything else, first job not suitable, need to keep looking and then maybe you realize you are better off running a hawker stall (what my friend). Look on the bright side, you are still in a position to remove her from your life and look for your own happiness afterwards. |
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You neither mentioned you have any problem nor did you ask for any advice. As much as I find your post a waste of bandwidth, you are still a samster, meaning you have as much right to post as anyone else here. So who the fuck are you to tell anyone to shut up?? Oh yah, what happened to your definition of achievement or getting PES C?? |
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Having to live with all these marriage/divorce is a very grand and nice topic to talk about? Want me to prepare a mic for u to debate about this? |
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Only page 1 only already start war Liao... aiyo
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Then again does the fact that Parrotkid works in which industry has anything to do with this? Yes, I'm 40+, but do you know me? how do you know I am living in the past?? Is living in the past bad? I don't know, when I look back to my failed marriage, I always said to myself, thank goodness I ended it and move on with my current wife. No, living through marriage/divorce is nothing grand, it's just part of life. What I post is tell the fellow samsters here, there is nothing to fear about divorcing but then again I don't expect you to understand. |
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A few of local fresh graduates can do R&D, talk properly and mingle around with other colleagues. So stop this nonsence right now, TS! ->
Your response is not making any sense. What do R and D has to do with TS's topic? Define talk properly? What does mingle around with colleagues have to do with this topic? Are you drunk or high as a kite when you typed this?:D |
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You can slog like a dog and return home to a sexless marriage. Might as well not marry. |
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TS why choose to spend your time blaming & moping? Do you want to drag in all your female relatives and blame them as well for being gold diggers? Your Mum, Aunties , cousins are all gold diggers? LOL roughly 3 in 10 marriages fail, did someone hold a knife on your throat to force you into marriage? As a grown adult, you have to be responsible for your actions & decisions. Ever consider there are still the 7/10 marriages that continue? There are still many couples who celebrate their 30/40th anniversaries. You need a change in your perspective seriously. See a counselor or a psychiatrist to work out your problems properly instead of coming to a fuking sex forum for answers to your life issues. Take Positive action!
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Although I am only in my 20s.... I have vowed to remain a bachelor for the rest of my life. What surprised me most when I made this declaration was that my mum and aunties fully supported me! And sometimes they willingly take on the role of goalkeepers to block or stop any females from getting too close to me. |
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Not all the women are like this but the society might make them to be like this. As a guy you are destined to be the one that always paying and giving money. Unless your gf/wife is rich.
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A woman will always prefer a men who can support their desires and needs. Be in good sex or one who can fulfill their needs
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I think if your wife know you since school days or when you only started work, most likely genuine because you are so poor back then and she is willingly to go through all with you. However, if you are better off and start a relationship when you are like mid-30s, its kinda unavoidable that the girls too are more practical and mature since they have been through failed relationships too.
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Seen more than a few cases of college /poly couples breaking up when the lady starts working. There’s no guarantee, people can change when they start work. Its easy to get seduced by the lifestyle that $ can buy & charming bosses or colleagues who may seemingly offer availability, romance & possibly a higher SES
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which is still true till this day. |
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Marry foreign wives lagi worse, money suckers ,they or their family will try all means to leech, not all are like this but most of it.I am one of the victims in this situation.Damn tulan.
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Angmo wife ?
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竹门对竹门 肛门对肛门 :D |
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You're right about the behavior of most wives and women. But most of them are not gold-diggers, they are hypergamous. All healthy, heterosexual women are hypergamous. It's in their genes and primitive brains, the result of 300,000 yrs of human evolution. Don't blame them. A hypergamous woman is good, a gold digger is bad. Big difference. Here is a nice article on hypergamy and incels. "A Case for Female Hypergamy." It is completely natural for women to choose the “best man.” https://medium.com/moments-of-passio...y-b2a735094136 Your comments? My advice? Strive to be the BEST man you possibly could. Study hard, work hard. Improve yourself every day, in every way. It's not where you start, it's where you finish that counts. Happy New Year and stay safe. Bro WB |
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Jiuhu types wont take care. |
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When I was nearing 40, my mum keep wanting to find wife for me and pressure me. |
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The problem marrying at this late or later poses some problems. If you marriage goes south and it has been a long time, like ie 10 years. You gonna lose a lot of assets and $$$$. If you throw children into picture, that's bad. Another if, you had vasectomy and your wife is expecting. That's even WORSE. :D Lastly, you never be fully recovered financially as the cost will suck you dry. |
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